Describe your ideal Wife / Hubby.

 
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She has to like ACDC, Tarantino movies, Star Wars, and let me tell her naughty things
okay roman
I understand the want to have things in common with a potential partner, but I've found that the differences between people actually makes conversation more interesting. Like it's nice to have those points of similarity, but music taste and especially movie taste? I feel like there's nothing there that's a deal breaker really.

That's in response to both of you but I included Verb because I wanted his take on the subject.

It's a balancing act. The evolutionary advantage to having a partner is that you effectively have two brains to solve problems with. If the two parties are too similar, the second brain is redundant. If the two parties are too different, common ground, trust and rational compatibility can be hard to manage.

Statistically speaking though, couples with more similarity have an easier time staying together.


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She has to like ACDC, Tarantino movies, Star Wars, and let me tell her naughty things
okay roman
I understand the want to have things in common with a potential partner, but I've found that the differences between people actually makes conversation more interesting. Like it's nice to have those points of similarity, but music taste and especially movie taste? I feel like there's nothing there that's a deal breaker really.

That's in response to both of you but I included Verb because I wanted his take on the subject.
i 100% agree

i do have my dealbreakers—enough to probably ensure that i'll never be in a relationship, which is fine—but i would never want someone who's just a carbon copy of myself and my interests

having different tastes from your partner gives you more shit to do, as long as you're both open-minded—like, if you LOVE star wars, imagine introducing it to someone for the first time and getting to watch it together, that would be fucking delightful

and in turn, maybe they can open your mind to some shit you've never taken seriously before

that always seemed like the most fun part of a relationship to me—having this symbiotic mutual thing where you help each other grow and mature and shit


 
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Hubby as a colloquialism needs to be stricken from the English language immediately.
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She has to like ACDC, Tarantino movies, Star Wars, and let me tell her naughty things
okay roman
I understand the want to have things in common with a potential partner, but I've found that the differences between people actually makes conversation more interesting. Like it's nice to have those points of similarity, but music taste and especially movie taste? I feel like there's nothing there that's a deal breaker really.

That's in response to both of you but I included Verb because I wanted his take on the subject.

It's a balancing act. The evolutionary advantage to having a partner is that you effectively have two brains to solve problems with. If the two parties are too similar, the second brain is redundant. If the two parties are too different, common ground, trust and rational compatibility can be hard to manage.

Statistically speaking though, couples with more similarity have an easier time staying together.
Oh absolutely. I was speaking more on the level of entertainment.

Even on the entertainment level, if someone loves a type of media I despise and they hate everything I like I doubt a relationship would ever spring from that in the first place, but to say there are hard and set media franchises my partner must enjoy sounds silly really.


 
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She has to like ACDC, Tarantino movies, Star Wars, and let me tell her naughty things
okay roman
I understand the want to have things in common with a potential partner, but I've found that the differences between people actually makes conversation more interesting. Like it's nice to have those points of similarity, but music taste and especially movie taste? I feel like there's nothing there that's a deal breaker really.

That's in response to both of you but I included Verb because I wanted his take on the subject.
i 100% agree

i do have my dealbreakers—enough to probably ensure that i'll never be in a relationship, which is fine—but i would never want someone who's just a carbon copy of myself and my interests

having different tastes from your partner gives you more shit to do, as long as you're both open-minded—like, if you LOVE star wars, imagine introducing it to someone for the first time and getting to watch it together, that would be fucking delightful

and in turn, maybe they can open your mind to some shit you've never taken seriously before

that always seemed like the most fun part of a relationship to me—having this symbiotic mutual thing where you help each other grow and mature and shit
Exactly.

The big thing here is both being open-minded and odds are that value will be more at the core of the person's personality. Which is to say if you're with them in the first place, odds are they're not shutting down every difference.


 
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I DONT GIVE A SINGLE -blam!- MOTHER -blam!-ER ITS A MOTHER -blam!-ING FORUM, OH WOW, YOU HAVE THE WORD NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, HOW MOTHER -blam!-ING COOL, NOT, YOUR ARE NOTHING TO ME BUT A BRAINWASHED PIECE OF SHIT BLOGGER, PEOPLE ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, SO PLEASE PUNCH YOURAELF IN THE FACE AND STAB YOUR EYE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT OF SOCIETY
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Is it ribbed for her pleasure?


 
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someday you will realize you are very wrong about this show and it's only the association it has with me that drives you from it

it's an expertly-made show filled with heart, wit, tragedy, and charm


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Hey.
I came here from b.net after a few Floods invited me. None of them post on either b.net nor here anymore, which is sad. I was still active on b.net until for some bizarre reason, b.net admins locked out people who have not played Destiny. Even if you wanted to post on the offtopic section. After that, I fully moved here and have not returned to b.net since.
Please come play Halo with me.


 
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you first OP
Fem cheat tbh.

you fucked up again

"describe" doesn't just mean "post a picture of"


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>3 people liked this

Imagine affecting 4 people so much that they refuse to watch one of the best comedies ever made because you found it first!

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Hey.
I came here from b.net after a few Floods invited me. None of them post on either b.net nor here anymore, which is sad. I was still active on b.net until for some bizarre reason, b.net admins locked out people who have not played Destiny. Even if you wanted to post on the offtopic section. After that, I fully moved here and have not returned to b.net since.
Please come play Halo with me.
you first OP
Fem cheat tbh.

you fucked up again

"describe" doesn't just mean "post a picture of"
The issue here is that this was never meant to be a serious discussion thread.
I feel like if I really open up like this here and describe my dream wife, I'll just get meme'd on. Here goes anyway

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Female with a strong character but who doesn't take life too seriously. Can endure 'roasts' and respond with her own disses.
Has interests / hobbies outside of the 'basic realm' (Hanging out with friends, travel and music).
Preferably Asian.
Not taller than me.
Non-smoker.
Knows what YouTube is besides Music Videos.
Can be faithful.
Not 'crazy'.
Not a gold digger.
Is patient with my 'problems' (You can tell I have some)
Not religious
Likes babies / kids


 
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very judgmental post fatherlynick

btw my true ideal wife/hubby is anyone on this earth who doesnt have hate in their heart, I feel that's very inclusive and reasonable


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Hey.
I came here from b.net after a few Floods invited me. None of them post on either b.net nor here anymore, which is sad. I was still active on b.net until for some bizarre reason, b.net admins locked out people who have not played Destiny. Even if you wanted to post on the offtopic section. After that, I fully moved here and have not returned to b.net since.
Please come play Halo with me.
very judgmental post fatherlynick

btw my true ideal wife/hubby is anyone on this earth who doesnt have hate in their heart, I feel that's very inclusive and reasonable
After having what I would deem 'non-judgemental' relationships and them crashing and burning in the end. I realised its best to go for what you actually want.
Hard to stay happy with someone who is crazy and abusive. No matter how much you love them, they will fuck you up. Never again.

What did you find judgemental tho? I am not judging anyone just because they don't fit my 'ideal wife' criteria. People can stay the way they are, but if I am looking for someone who I want to live with - you bet I will filter some out. I care because its my partner, not someone's else.
Last Edit: July 13, 2018, 06:59:19 AM by FatherlyNick


 
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I DONT GIVE A SINGLE -blam!- MOTHER -blam!-ER ITS A MOTHER -blam!-ING FORUM, OH WOW, YOU HAVE THE WORD NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, HOW MOTHER -blam!-ING COOL, NOT, YOUR ARE NOTHING TO ME BUT A BRAINWASHED PIECE OF SHIT BLOGGER, PEOPLE ONLY LIKE YOU BECAUSE YOU HAVE NINJA BELOW YOUR NAME, SO PLEASE PUNCH YOURAELF IN THE FACE AND STAB YOUR EYE BECAUSE YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIECE OF SHIT OF SOCIETY
very judgmental post fatherlynick

btw my true ideal wife/hubby is anyone on this earth who doesnt have hate in their heart, I feel that's very inclusive and reasonable
Man that's a really long winded way to say hobo


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Hey.
I came here from b.net after a few Floods invited me. None of them post on either b.net nor here anymore, which is sad. I was still active on b.net until for some bizarre reason, b.net admins locked out people who have not played Destiny. Even if you wanted to post on the offtopic section. After that, I fully moved here and have not returned to b.net since.
Please come play Halo with me.
you first OP
Fem cheat tbh.

you fucked up again

"describe" doesn't just mean "post a picture of"
The issue here is that this was never meant to be a serious discussion thread.
I feel like if I really open up like this here and describe my dream wife, I'll just get meme'd on. Here goes anyway

Spoiler
Female with a strong character but who doesn't take life too seriously. Can endure 'roasts' and respond with her own disses.
Has interests / hobbies outside of the 'basic realm' (Hanging out with friends, travel and music).
Preferably Asian.
Not taller than me.
Non-smoker.
Knows what YouTube is besides Music Videos.
Can be faithful.
Not 'crazy'.
Not a gold digger.
Is patient with my 'problems' (You can tell I have some)
Not religious
Likes babies / kids
Now you go, Verb.


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Hey.
I came here from b.net after a few Floods invited me. None of them post on either b.net nor here anymore, which is sad. I was still active on b.net until for some bizarre reason, b.net admins locked out people who have not played Destiny. Even if you wanted to post on the offtopic section. After that, I fully moved here and have not returned to b.net since.
Please come play Halo with me.