Couldn't someone theoretically choose to be gay?

Elai · February 28, 2015, 05:39:12 PM

For instance, what if a straight man has sex with another man, despite being 100% heterosexual? He is choosing to have gax sex, right?

N/A · February 28, 2015, 05:42:43 PM

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challengerX · February 28, 2015, 05:44:32 PM

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Elai · February 28, 2015, 05:47:22 PM

Quote from: Z♡n on February 28, 2015, 05:42:43 PM

Sexuality deals more with attraction than it does action. You could fuck a dude and still be straight because you weren't attracted to him, but if you were hoping that his long and hard cock fills up your ass and mouth with his sweet seed while doing it, you're gay. That is unless you say no homo of course.

But if he does it again and finds that it's an acquired taste?

Elai · February 28, 2015, 05:47:56 PM

Quote from: challengerX on February 28, 2015, 05:44:32 PM

OP confirmed fag.

No homo.

Naoto · February 28, 2015, 05:47:58 PM

He's choosing to participate in gay sex, but that wouldn't necessarily make him gay. At most probably bi if he was into it since he was previously '100% straight'.

The thing is that gay, straight, bi are all words we've made to categorize sexuality and they don't necessarily match the chaotic cesspool that is the human brain. Nature doesn't always fit into neat little boxes. We still don't know a lot about the neuroscience behind sexuality and its development.

People are obviously born with predispositions, but I think it'd be ignorant to say psychological development and surroundings have no impact on one's sexual preferences.

BrenMan 94 · February 28, 2015, 05:48:46 PM

Quote from: Snake on February 28, 2015, 05:47:22 PM

Quote from: Z♡n on February 28, 2015, 05:42:43 PM
Sexuality deals more with attraction than it does action. You could fuck a dude and still be straight because you weren't attracted to him, but if you were hoping that his long and hard cock fills up your ass and mouth with his sweet seed while doing it, you're gay. That is unless you say no homo of course.

But if he does it again and finds that it's an acquired taste?

In that case it's more of a fetish.

N/A · February 28, 2015, 05:54:06 PM

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DAS B00T x2 · February 28, 2015, 05:55:25 PM

Quote from: Z♡n on February 28, 2015, 05:54:06 PM

Quote from: Snake on February 28, 2015, 05:47:22 PM
Quote from: Z♡n on February 28, 2015, 05:42:43 PM
Sexuality deals more with attraction than it does action. You could fuck a dude and still be straight because you weren't attracted to him, but if you were hoping that his long and hard cock fills up your ass and mouth with his sweet seed while doing it, you're gay. That is unless you say no homo of course.

But if he does it again and finds that it's an acquired taste?
Really to be completely serious for a moment, it would depend on intent.

Take for example a lot of gay guys in the closet. They may have relationships with women, get married to them, have kids, and never have gay sex once in his life. He's still gay though, because he is forcing himself to engage in that relationship out of social stigma and wants to conform out of fear. He may never act on it, but he is attracted to dudes, and that's what matters. For your scenario though, one could assume that the person is at the very least bi if he holds an attracted to the person, maybe he just likes his prostate stimulated, there are straight dudes who get off to pegging.

Aaaaaaaand /thread