I'm confused on what to do now. I can move on passed something that's been tearing at me for months. But what can i do?

Where do i start? Halp. I need something to do, but I'm not feeling any motivation to things I'd want to do.

All I'm saying is, i want a goal, but i can't seem to know where to start. I'm feeling lost in my seeking of one, i don't know how to start.

Tell us what the hell you mean

Things are like that. Remember that. Transition periods. When you let go of something, or you're suddenly thrown into a new area that's beyond your current ways of doing things, your lifestyle, then there's a period of feeling loss.

It's not easy to fight.

I don't know what situation you've just walked out of. I don't know how you live or what you want to do. So the choice falls on you. You have to think. Find the options that are there that you know you can do. Or, look at the options you want to try and push yourself.

The problem with transition periods, is that if you let them hang around for too long, you don't get back up off the floor again. And it's tough to get moving again.

But you have to. Otherwise you won't pursue anything.

If memory serves, I'd take a guess at one of two things.

You've moved on from somebody. Or you've moved on from your job. Maybe you're asking on what you should do in regards to people next. Maybe you find all this free time suddenly strange. Whatever the case, it would be handy if we had a little context to work with.

What do you want to be when you grow up?

Yeah, and what are you wearing?

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What do you want to be when you grow up?

Yeah, and what are you wearing?

Khakis

I was asking Naru for you

Go away nobody likes you

"I'm going to make a thread about how I need help, but I'm going to be cryptic and vague so nobody knows what I'm talking about and leave everyone confused"

Ok

I didn't think i was cryptic honestly. I just moved on from someone and now i feel like i wanna finish and do goals. Yet, i don't know how to start or what to work towards.

What do you want to be when you grow up?

An astronomer. That's a given. But I'm thinking more of a short term kind of stuff.

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What do you want to be when you grow up?

An astronomer. That's a given. But I'm thinking more of a short term kind of stuff.

Do you have a girlfriend

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Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on June 13, 2015, 02:30:01 PM

What do you want to be when you grow up?

An astronomer. That's a given. But I'm thinking more of a short term kind of stuff.

Do you have a girlfriend

No..

Perhaps finding one could consume your time

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Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on June 13, 2015, 03:11:08 PM

Quote from: AstroNaru on June 13, 2015, 03:08:27 PM

Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on June 13, 2015, 02:30:01 PM

What do you want to be when you grow up?

An astronomer. That's a given. But I'm thinking more of a short term kind of stuff.

Do you have a girlfriend

No..

Perhaps finding one could consume your time

But how do i start?

Bars
Tinder
EHarmony
Social gatherings

Pretty much anywhere with a lot of people
You never know how a relationship might start

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Quote from: AstroNaru on June 13, 2015, 03:12:04 PM

Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on June 13, 2015, 03:11:08 PM

Quote from: AstroNaru on June 13, 2015, 03:08:27 PM

Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on June 13, 2015, 02:30:01 PM

What do you want to be when you grow up?

An astronomer. That's a given. But I'm thinking more of a short term kind of stuff.

Do you have a girlfriend

No..

Perhaps finding one could consume your time

But how do i start?

Bars
Tinder
EHarmony
Social gatherings

Pretty much anywhere with a lot of people
You never know how a relationship might start

Ugh.. Socializing

That's exactly the type of attitude that turns girls off

It's one one those things that you don't want to do but when you do it, it was actually kind of cool

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Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on June 13, 2015, 03:15:15 PM

Quote from: AstroNaru on June 13, 2015, 03:13:40 PM

Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on June 13, 2015, 03:13:13 PM

Quote from: AstroNaru on June 13, 2015, 03:12:04 PM

Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on June 13, 2015, 03:11:08 PM

Quote from: AstroNaru on June 13, 2015, 03:08:27 PM

Quote from: Ingloriouswho98 on June 13, 2015, 02:30:01 PM

What do you want to be when you grow up?

An astronomer. That's a given. But I'm thinking more of a short term kind of stuff.

Do you have a girlfriend

No..

Perhaps finding one could consume your time

But how do i start?

Bars
Tinder
EHarmony
Social gatherings

Pretty much anywhere with a lot of people
You never know how a relationship might start

Ugh.. Socializing

That's exactly the type of attitude that turns girls off

It's one one those things that you don't want to do but when you do it, it was actually kind of cool

Jesus Christ you're the last person I'd expect for advice.

:I