My.... final update.

Mox · December 27, 2014, 05:18:13 PM

-snip-

This is over, lock this thread. I don't need this.

Lemy the Lizerd · December 27, 2014, 05:22:03 PM

I am so sorry to hear this.

More Than Mortal · December 27, 2014, 05:47:15 PM

This is something the authorities need to handle from here on out.

I'm so sorry you had to endure this hardship, and you have my deepest condolences.

gats · December 27, 2014, 05:47:23 PM

Oh my lord, that is absolutely devastating. From the bottom of my heart I really am sorry. It is a terrible thing to lose a sibling.

Although if I may ask how are you completely sure Enzo has passed? Did she say?

Is there not a chance Enzo was taken into care?

Mox · December 27, 2014, 05:55:28 PM

Quote from: goootsby on December 27, 2014, 05:47:23 PM

Oh my lord, that is absolutely devastating. From the bottom of my heart I really am sorry. It is a terrible thing to lose a sibling.

Although if I may ask how are you completely sure Enzo has passed? Did she say?

Is there not a chance Enzo was taken into care?

there's no one that couldve possibly taken him. And she would never give him up.

R o c k e t · December 27, 2014, 05:56:33 PM

That's terrible. I'm sorry Neo

Mad Max · December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM

Mox · December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM

huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.

Mad Max · December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.

It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?

Mox · December 27, 2014, 06:03:33 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.
It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?

. If you've known half of the shit this woman has done you wouldn't say much to her either, just stop posting here if you don't know what's going on, I really don't feel like getting into detail.

Mad Max · December 27, 2014, 06:04:13 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:03:33 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.
It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?
. If you've known half of the shit this woman has done you wouldn't say much to her either, just stop posting here if you don't know what's going on, I really don't feel like getting into detail.

It just seems strange, is all I'm saying. I'll leave it at that.

Mox · December 27, 2014, 06:07:42 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:04:13 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:03:33 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.
It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?
. If you've known half of the shit this woman has done you wouldn't say much to her either, just stop posting here if you don't know what's going on, I really don't feel like getting into detail.
It just seems strange, is all I'm saying. I'll leave it at that.

let me put it this way, my brother was my numberone priority, I didn't go there to socialize with her. I went there to find my brother.

Mad Max · December 27, 2014, 06:08:38 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:07:42 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:04:13 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:03:33 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.
It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?
. If you've known half of the shit this woman has done you wouldn't say much to her either, just stop posting here if you don't know what's going on, I really don't feel like getting into detail.
It just seems strange, is all I'm saying. I'll leave it at that.
let me put it this way, my brother was my numberone priority, I didn't go there to socialize with her. I went there to find my brother.

..and I'm not talking about socializing, I'm talking about questioning her to figure out what the fuck happened.

Mox · December 27, 2014, 06:13:37 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:08:38 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:07:42 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:04:13 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:03:33 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.
It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?
. If you've known half of the shit this woman has done you wouldn't say much to her either, just stop posting here if you don't know what's going on, I really don't feel like getting into detail.
It just seems strange, is all I'm saying. I'll leave it at that.
let me put it this way, my brother was my numberone priority, I didn't go there to socialize with her. I went there to find my brother.
..and I'm not talking about socializing, I'm talking about questioning her to figure out what the fuck happened.

put yourself in my shoes, if you found out what I did. Knowing this woman was the cause of it, would you want t stay in that place? And like I said before, you don't know the kind of shit this woman put me through. If I stayed in that house, things wouldve turned out worse than they already are.

Ushan · December 27, 2014, 06:15:42 PM

That is truly horrifying.

Mad Max · December 27, 2014, 06:17:18 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:13:37 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:08:38 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:07:42 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:04:13 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:03:33 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.
It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?
. If you've known half of the shit this woman has done you wouldn't say much to her either, just stop posting here if you don't know what's going on, I really don't feel like getting into detail.
It just seems strange, is all I'm saying. I'll leave it at that.
let me put it this way, my brother was my numberone priority, I didn't go there to socialize with her. I went there to find my brother.
..and I'm not talking about socializing, I'm talking about questioning her to figure out what the fuck happened.
put yourself in my shoes, if you found out what I did. Knowing this woman was the cause of it, would you want t stay in that place? And like I said before, you don't know the kind of shit this woman put me through. If I stayed in that house, things wouldve turned out worse than they already are.

All I'm saying is that I think it was a poor choice, after all this work, to not question the one person who has answers.

R o c k e t · December 27, 2014, 06:20:05 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:17:18 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:13:37 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:08:38 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:07:42 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:04:13 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:03:33 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.
It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?
. If you've known half of the shit this woman has done you wouldn't say much to her either, just stop posting here if you don't know what's going on, I really don't feel like getting into detail.
It just seems strange, is all I'm saying. I'll leave it at that.
let me put it this way, my brother was my numberone priority, I didn't go there to socialize with her. I went there to find my brother.
..and I'm not talking about socializing, I'm talking about questioning her to figure out what the fuck happened.
put yourself in my shoes, if you found out what I did. Knowing this woman was the cause of it, would you want t stay in that place? And like I said before, you don't know the kind of shit this woman put me through. If I stayed in that house, things wouldve turned out worse than they already are.
All I'm saying is that I think it was a poor choice, after all this work, to not question the one person who has answers.

I linked his original thread detailing everything in the last 2 threads he made updating us. I'm on mobile right now and can't link it.

I could have swore you posted in there. Regardless, what's done is done. Neo doesn't want to discuss it, so let's just leave it at that. No harm done, let's just move on.

rC · December 27, 2014, 06:27:20 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:13:37 PM

Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:08:38 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:07:42 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:04:13 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:03:33 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.
It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?
. If you've known half of the shit this woman has done you wouldn't say much to her either, just stop posting here if you don't know what's going on, I really don't feel like getting into detail.
It just seems strange, is all I'm saying. I'll leave it at that.
let me put it this way, my brother was my numberone priority, I didn't go there to socialize with her. I went there to find my brother.
..and I'm not talking about socializing, I'm talking about questioning her to figure out what the fuck happened.
put yourself in my shoes, if you found out what I did. Knowing this woman was the cause of it, would you want t stay in that place? And like I said before, you don't know the kind of shit this woman put me through. If I stayed in that house, things wouldve turned out worse than they already are.

Max is right. It was a mistake not to question her.

Mox · December 27, 2014, 06:30:35 PM

Quote from: RC5908 on December 27, 2014, 06:27:20 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:13:37 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:08:38 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:07:42 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:04:13 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:03:33 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.
It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?
. If you've known half of the shit this woman has done you wouldn't say much to her either, just stop posting here if you don't know what's going on, I really don't feel like getting into detail.
It just seems strange, is all I'm saying. I'll leave it at that.
let me put it this way, my brother was my numberone priority, I didn't go there to socialize with her. I went there to find my brother.
..and I'm not talking about socializing, I'm talking about questioning her to figure out what the fuck happened.
put yourself in my shoes, if you found out what I did. Knowing this woman was the cause of it, would you want t stay in that place? And like I said before, you don't know the kind of shit this woman put me through. If I stayed in that house, things wouldve turned out worse than they already are.
Max is right. It was a mistake not to question her.

so you're saying I should've questioned a woman that's literally insane about how my brother died? For fucks sake. When something like this happens to you come talk to me, until then don't tell me how I should've gone about things.

Kinder Graham · December 27, 2014, 06:35:21 PM

Call the fucking police, or I'll contact some federal agency and let them know about your account and they can track you down from there

Mox · December 27, 2014, 06:36:47 PM

Quote from: Kinder der Mörder on December 27, 2014, 06:35:21 PM

Call the fucking police, or I'll contact some federal agency and let them know about your account and they can track you down from there

Please stop. I'm already doing it. I don't need the trouble.

Mad Max · December 27, 2014, 06:38:05 PM

Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:30:35 PM

Quote from: RC5908 on December 27, 2014, 06:27:20 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:13:37 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:08:38 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:07:42 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:04:13 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:03:33 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 06:01:23 PM
Quote from: Neo on December 27, 2014, 06:00:31 PM
Quote from: Mad Max on December 27, 2014, 05:59:03 PM
huh?

I don't feel like going through this whole story again.
It just seems so...made up. I don't mean to be offensive or anything, but the fact that you did all that without saying a word? It just seems unlikely. Why didn't you question her about what happened?
. If you've known half of the shit this woman has done you wouldn't say much to her either, just stop posting here if you don't know what's going on, I really don't feel like getting into detail.
It just seems strange, is all I'm saying. I'll leave it at that.
let me put it this way, my brother was my numberone priority, I didn't go there to socialize with her. I went there to find my brother.
..and I'm not talking about socializing, I'm talking about questioning her to figure out what the fuck happened.
put yourself in my shoes, if you found out what I did. Knowing this woman was the cause of it, would you want t stay in that place? And like I said before, you don't know the kind of shit this woman put me through. If I stayed in that house, things wouldve turned out worse than they already are.
Max is right. It was a mistake not to question her.
so you're saying I should've questioned a woman that's literally insane about how my brother died?

Absolutely yes. If not, I'm not sure what the purpose of your trip was.

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For fucks sake. When something like this happens to you come talk to me, until then don't tell me how I should've gone about things.

If you want everyone to agree with you and give you a "sorry for you loss" post it on Facebook or something. You're the one who chose to share this story with random people on the internet.

Sandtrap · December 27, 2014, 06:38:43 PM

There isn't anything I can rightfully say here. And I don't like saying sorry or apologizing for things like this. Because I don't know you. And most of all I'm not in your shoes right now. I can't or won't ever likely go through what you're going through now. Saying "I'm sorry for your loss" is hollow.

I can't be sorry for your loss because I'm not there to see the weight on your shoulders. I'm not there to see a friend fall apart and crumble at all this. But I understand the pain. Not the pain of losing someone so close, but the pain of losing someone and never knowing what happened, or why, or where.

I can tell you this.

You tried. You understand that? You tried. And you did more for your relation than most people ever do these days. Don't blame yourself for not acting sooner or spotting things sooner.

The point is, you put your life on hold, packed up into a vehicle, and drove off to an unknown place with a potential asshole of a person or more residing there. Not many families these days are so close. Even more so you did it because you were worried. Nobody asked you for their help.

You did it because you cared. You got up and tried.

And I'm sorry that things panned out like this. But understand that you tried. You did the best you could with what you had, and you tried. Putting even that much effort down for such a thing is good. You're a good person, you know that?

All we can ever do is try and sometimes even the act of trying is difficult to stand up to. But you did it anyway. And now you know. No matter how much it hurts, you know for certain now. It will never be a wonder down the road in your life and it will never be a regret in old age that you didn't try. It hurts now. How could it not?

So. I won't say sorry to you for what you're going through.

I say thank you. Thank you for caring about someone and trying your best for them. Thank you for keeping us updated on things, and for choosing to share it with us.

I wish you the best in what comes after this. And whatever does, you're not alone for it. All of us are here and we will talk and listen to what you have to say when you need to say it. Always.

Take care Neo.

R o c k e t · December 27, 2014, 06:44:31 PM

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