What kind of alimony you want fam?

cxfhvxgkcf-56:7 · October 14, 2015, 03:35:23 PM

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Mordo · October 14, 2015, 03:38:54 PM

DAS B00T x2 · October 14, 2015, 04:36:52 PM

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Please whine some more. It's a biased system, but that's justified. Women who are raising a kid need that money a lot more than some newly bacholered guy.
You realize its quite common for the court to make the man pay child support even when he's raising the child the majority of the time?
Except it's not. The person who has the kid the majority of the time should get the alimony, and that's usually (rightfully) the mother.

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and that's usually (rightfully) the mother.

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rightfully

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mother

Boys raised by single moms contribute largely to the current generational struggles in the social and educational categories.

October 14, 2015, 04:40:04 PM

Mothers inherently deserve the kid more than fathers, unless they've proven to be bad at parenting.

DAS B00T x2 · October 14, 2015, 04:41:14 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 04:40:04 PM

Mothers inherently deserve the kid more than fathers, unless they've proven to be bad at parenting.

Most of them are.

October 14, 2015, 04:41:52 PM

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Mothers inherently deserve the kid more than fathers, unless they've proven to be bad at parenting.
Most of them are.

lol

2/10

CIS · October 14, 2015, 05:35:18 PM

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Mothers inherently deserve the kid more than fathers, unless they've proven to be bad at parenting.
Most of them are.

Purely anecdotal but I can tell you that my mom was a huge fuckup of a parent and pretty much did nothing but harass my father and I for a good while over anything she could. I'm not sure if my personal experience is in anyway reflective of a trend though.

cxfhvxgkcf-56:7 · October 14, 2015, 05:42:08 PM

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Mr. Psychologist · October 14, 2015, 06:21:14 PM

Ditto for three

October 14, 2015, 06:21:29 PM

ITT: No one's mothers loved them so they all hate women

Mad Max · October 14, 2015, 06:24:23 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 04:40:04 PM

Mothers inherently deserve the kid more than fathers, unless they've proven to be bad at parenting.

Women should check their privilege.

MyNameIsCharlie · October 14, 2015, 06:27:43 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 04:40:04 PM

Mothers inherently deserve the kid more than fathers, unless they've proven to be bad at parenting.

Ummm... No. A million times no.

Mr. Psychologist · October 14, 2015, 06:29:28 PM

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ITT: No one's mothers loved them so they all hate women

ITT: Sheltered people live oblivious lives

October 14, 2015, 06:34:32 PM

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ITT: No one's mothers loved them so they all hate women
ITT: Sheltered people live oblivious lives

lol man, I'm far from sheltered

Mr. Psychologist · October 14, 2015, 06:36:25 PM

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ITT: No one's mothers loved them so they all hate women
ITT: Sheltered people live oblivious lives
lol man, I'm far from sheltered

In that case why is it coming as a shock to you that there are just as many shit mothers as there are shit fathers?

Neither parent should automatically have the children, the one best able to support the children (not just financially, but also by not being a shitty person) should be given custody.

October 14, 2015, 06:37:26 PM

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Quote from: Mr Psychologist on October 14, 2015, 06:29:28 PM
Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 06:21:29 PM
ITT: No one's mothers loved them so they all hate women
ITT: Sheltered people live oblivious lives
lol man, I'm far from sheltered
In that case why is it coming as a shock to you that there are just as many shit mothers as there are shit fathers?

Neither parent should automatically have the children, the one best able to support the children (not just financially, but also by not being a shitty person) should be given custody.

I never refuted that.

Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 04:40:04 PM

Mothers inherently deserve the kid more than fathers, unless they've proven to be bad at parenting.

Mr. Psychologist · October 14, 2015, 06:48:32 PM

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Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 06:34:32 PM
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Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 06:21:29 PM
ITT: No one's mothers loved them so they all hate women
ITT: Sheltered people live oblivious lives
lol man, I'm far from sheltered
In that case why is it coming as a shock to you that there are just as many shit mothers as there are shit fathers?

Neither parent should automatically have the children, the one best able to support the children (not just financially, but also by not being a shitty person) should be given custody.
I never refuted that.

Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 04:40:04 PM
Mothers inherently deserve the kid more than fathers, unless they've proven to be bad at parenting.

Well obviously anyone who is proven to be bad at parenting shouldn't be given the children, but it happens all too frequently because of the assumption that the mother is just going to be the better parent so they never bother looking into it.

They don't though, the parent who can care for the child best does.
That factor is entirely unrelated to the gender of the parent and is to do with what sort of person they are.

challengerX · October 14, 2015, 07:17:25 PM

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Deleted · October 14, 2015, 08:01:39 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 02:37:00 PM

Please whine some more. It's a biased system, but that's justified. Women who are raising a kid need that money a lot more than some newly bacholered guy.

Tell that to my father who pulled me out of the shithole that life with my mom was. He could have demanded Alimony, in fact he probably should have, but unlike most people he's not a spiteful gold-digging whore.

Deleted · October 14, 2015, 08:03:07 PM

Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 04:40:04 PM

Mothers inherently deserve the kid more than fathers, unless they've proven to be bad at parenting.

Shank yourself with a rusty pipe

October 14, 2015, 08:03:56 PM

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Quote from: SecondClass on October 14, 2015, 02:37:00 PM
Please whine some more. It's a biased system, but that's justified. Women who are raising a kid need that money a lot more than some newly bacholered guy.

Tell that to my father who pulled me out of the shithole that life with my mom was. He could have demanded Alimony, in fact he probably should have, but unlike most people he's not a spiteful gold-digging whore.

anecdotes are fun

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Please whine some more. It's a biased system, but that's justified. Women who are raising a kid need that money a lot more than some newly bacholered guy.

Tell that to my father who pulled me out of the shithole that life with my mom was. He could have demanded Alimony, in fact he probably should have, but unlike most people he's not a spiteful gold-digging whore.
anecdotes are fun

So is smoking while chugging Unleaded from the nearest BP station. You should try it out.

October 14, 2015, 08:25:22 PM

lol man take a xanax or something

Deleted · October 14, 2015, 08:31:03 PM

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lol man take a xanax or something

Just as soon as you talk to your physician about getting a treatment for that cuckold syndrome

October 14, 2015, 08:42:23 PM

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lol man take a xanax or something

Just as soon as you talk to your physician about getting a treatment for that cuckold syndrome

Lol man I've never been cheated on

Cindy · October 14, 2015, 08:44:03 PM

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ITT: No one's mothers loved them so they all hate women

Things are finally starting to make sense

October 14, 2015, 09:09:49 PM

Quote from: Mr Psychologist on October 14, 2015, 06:48:32 PM

That factor is entirely unrelated to the gender of the parent and is to do with what sort of person they are.

Untrue. Women are naturally predisposed to be better at nurturing than men.

Assassin 11D7 · October 14, 2015, 09:18:04 PM

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That factor is entirely unrelated to the gender of the parent and is to do with what sort of person they are.
Untrue. Women are naturally predisposed to be better at nurturing than men.

Exactly, which is why all women should be stay at home moms unless evidence supports otherwise.

Sandtrap · October 14, 2015, 09:31:06 PM

In light of all this wonderful bickering, I just have one thing to say in light of your arguments class.

You need both parents to properly raise a child. Because both parents are different, they provide key aspects to their child that cannot be provided by just one parent. In a functional family, both parents bring things to the table. Fathers provide in their own way.

Mothers are usually softer, and gentle. And fathers provide the push and drive for their kids. This is, ideally, in a working family. Both males and females take from their parents, both of them. Lack of a second parent destabilizes things and it becomes somewhat of an issue.

I might agree that mothers have a softer nature to them. But dads contribute in their own way.

And, you're forgetting one last thing. Mother's bond stronger with a son, than with a daughter. And likewise, fathers bond stronger with a daughter than with a son. It revolves around our protection instincts and the fact that opposites attract.

As a son grows older he's going to clash with his father, and likewise, a daughter will clash with her mother. Switch the parents around, and this usually doesn't happen.

Of course, this all hinges on a functioning family. But still. My point here, is that both sexes are needed. In a breakup, you can't pick sides based off of one sexes qualities over the other. You have to choose who would be the better parent to try and manage alone.

Such is not often the case, however.

Mr. Psychologist · October 15, 2015, 01:29:12 AM

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That factor is entirely unrelated to the gender of the parent and is to do with what sort of person they are.
Untrue. Women are naturally predisposed to be better at nurturing than men.

Going on the assumption that it's true, that still doesn't encompass all of the things a child needs to grow up successfully.

Role models, Discipline and Inspiration for example, particularly in the case of boys they get this moreso from the father figure than the mother figure. That's not to say one gender can't do the job of the other in this case, but simply mollycoddling a sprog tends to result in a little emperor/empress.