How stressed should I be?

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Imagine you are an employer of mine reviewing my resume. After I graduated you saw that I did nothing for six months after and was not working. Refer to this article: http://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2013/04/the-terrifying-reality-of-long-term-unemployment/274957/

Getting stressed and affecting me physically about this- trouble sleeping, feeling of being overwhelmed, etc But, I have found two things to do in November next week: Reporting on the local election results for a news agency Nov. 4th (not really reporting per se, I enter the final results into a smartphone app for them while at the polling station and I get $150 for doing it; I have to vote anyways), and second a charity walk for hunger awareness. Putting one day events/jobs on my resume. Yay or nay? In addition I'm also going to a one day Excel seminar in December that's worth .6 credits so I guess I can add that as well.

Also I got an email for substitute teaching to get fingerprinted to do it, but I'm not sure. It's not a career, ya know? If I did it I'd still be looking for something better. Anyone have experience subbing? Is it hell or worth it? I don't think I want to be a teacher anymore (I went to an open house for graduates for a teaching program earlier this month) Any advice would be appreciated. I'm a very anxious and stressed person, but a hard worker. My first job was in manufacturing for a summer job (just three months) and I worked my butt off...I guess I would be in even a worse off position if I did not have that.


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I'd put it on there. Why not? Anything can help you.



 
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I wouldn't put any short-term things like that on a resume, you might want to make something up and I substitute teaching would be something, but I'd recommend you against becoming a full teacher.
I don't want to become a teacher. The program is very rigorous, and you can't do it unless it is your passion. They explained this at the conference I went to...  And I'm too honest to lie on my resume, I'd never do that. Everything I put has to be something I've done. Still thinking about substituting, but I don't know...it feels awkward going back to all the schools I went to growing up. Plus there's a stigma around substitutes.
Last Edit: October 31, 2014, 05:12:36 PM by RomanGladiator


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Got yelled at by my dad because I said I didn't want to do it. I just don't want to be around kids, I want co-workers my own age.Substituting just has the connotation that you couldn't find anything else, it's not a career. I just don't know what to do anymore. I literally cannot decide what to do with my life -so much that I'm starting to wish I didn't exist in the first place so I wouldn't have to worry about it. If I don't find a job within in a year...that's it, my life is pretty much over and I might as well kill myself.
Last Edit: October 31, 2014, 08:45:32 PM by RomanGladiator


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Got yelled at by my dad because I said I didn't want to do it. I just don't want to be around kids, I want co-workers my own age.Substituting just has the connotation that you couldn't find anything else, it's not a career. I just don't know what to do anymore. I literally cannot decide what to do with my life -so much that I'm starting to wish I didn't exist in the first place so I wouldn't have to worry about it. If I don't find a job within in a year...that's it, my life is pretty much over and I might as well kill myself.
Maybe you could be a professor at UConn? That way you don't have to deal with kids.

That would be awesome if I was in your class. I'd completely blackmail the shit out of you for straight As.
>years to get master
>then even more years to get a PhD
Too much schooling. I want to get into the workforce to gain more experience. And I'm not exactly the academic type. I finished with a 2.966 in Liberal Arts. That is just absolute shit. Literally I cannot decide on a single occupation that I would want to do, and now it is really starting to affect me. Definitely not thinking good thoughts tonight.
Last Edit: October 31, 2014, 09:18:47 PM by RomanGladiator


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Got yelled at by my dad because I said I didn't want to do it. I just don't want to be around kids, I want co-workers my own age.Substituting just has the connotation that you couldn't find anything else, it's not a career. I just don't know what to do anymore. I literally cannot decide what to do with my life -so much that I'm starting to wish I didn't exist in the first place so I wouldn't have to worry about it. If I don't find a job within in a year...that's it, my life is pretty much over and I might as well kill myself.
Maybe you could be a professor at UConn? That way you don't have to deal with kids.

That would be awesome if I was in your class. I'd completely blackmail the shit out of you for straight As.
>years to get master
>then even more years to get a PhD
Too much schooling. I want to get into the workforce to gain more experience. And I'm not exactly the academic type. I finished with a 2.966 in Liberal Arts. That is just absolute shit. Literally I cannot decide on a single occupation that I would want to do, and now it is really starting to affect me. Definitely not thinking good thoughts tonight.
A 3.0 can't be too bad though. I mean isn't that just straight Bs? Bs aren't that bad.
I guess...I barely just missed the 3.0. If I could re-do college I could. I didn't network and I didn't get an internship, and all because I wanted as much time to play video games as possible. And it's hurting me now.

 Didn't make any connections, didn't have any fun or go crazy...and I still can;t get over video games, I just want to play the MCC and that's the only thing on my mind, I can't get over it. It's an addiction. I feel like I have to be the best player I can be and get hyper competitive and get as many achievements as possible to be better than others to feel like I'm actually doing something, but it's a fake sense of accomplishment. So much of my life has been wasted playing games. Living with my parents with no social life...and all my friends have forgotten me, or wouldn't want to associate with someone as lazy as me. They all have jobs and girlfriends they frack. I'm the one who's left behind and not where they're supposed to be. It feels like I can never grow up. This doesn't feel like living at all. I put off things for video games in the past, and still do.
Last Edit: October 31, 2014, 09:38:50 PM by RomanGladiator


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I want to hear opinions and input on this. Is it worth subbing for $75 a day and getting disrespected by teenagers? We all know that having a sub basically means they can do whatever they want. I feel like it will put me in an awkward position.


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Once you've been out of work for six months, there's little you can do to find work.
In other words, an hero it. Got it.

Edit: forgot I was in serious, lel. OT: Interning helps a lot. In fact without my internship from my old high schools program, I probably wouldn't have landed my job so easily. I interned for a month, took a few months to be lazy, decided I need to do some shit with my boring life and decided to apply. And got it due to (most importantly) experience and the fact I was a 10 min walk away so they know I'm reliable and they know to call me if they're shot staff or whatever. It shouldn't take 6 months to find a job. Not with all these websites to help you find people who WANT your help. (indeed.com) Most of those people who haven't had work in 6+ months probably aren't really trying.
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When you don't have a lot of paid work experience, it's hard to put a resume together.

What you need to do is draw on the work, volunteering, or educational experience that is the most relevant to the job you are applying for, and highlight the soft, transferrable skills that you have, in addition to the technical skills the job requires.

You may not be able to meet all the technical qualifications for the job, but if you can zero in on those soft skills and express that you are a well rounded and motivated individual, you may get a shot.

You can spin the voting thing by highlighting the community service element, which could be useful if you decide to stick to teaching. You can also highlight technical skills with the Excel seminar and using the smartphone app.

I wouldn't write off the substitute teacher thing if I were you. There are DOZENS of very useful soft skills you can pick up and emphasize from it. Dealing with different groups of people, organizing and presenting a study plan, communicating with the main teacher as a team (TEAMWORK EXPERIENCE IS A HUGE RESUME PLUS!), etc.


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When you don't have a lot of paid work experience, it's hard to put a resume together.

What you need to do is draw on the work, volunteering, or educational experience that is the most relevant to the job you are applying for, and highlight the soft, transferrable skills that you have, in addition to the technical skills the job requires.

You may not be able to meet all the technical qualifications for the job, but if you can zero in on those soft skills and express that you are a well rounded and motivated individual, you may get a shot.

You can spin the voting thing by highlighting the community service element, which could be useful if you decide to stick to teaching. You can also highlight technical skills with the Excel seminar and using the smartphone app.

I wouldn't write off the substitute teacher thing if I were you. There are DOZENS of very useful soft skills you can pick up and emphasize from it. Dealing with different groups of people, organizing and presenting a study plan, communicating with the main teacher as a team (TEAMWORK EXPERIENCE IS A HUGE RESUME PLUS!), etc.
I don't really want to substitute though...I don't want to be around kids, I want to be around people my own age so I can have a social life with fellow co-workers and maybe ask out that hot woman at the office. Being a sub seems awful. I already was made fun of once in high school, the last thing I need is to go back and go through it again with disrespectful kids. Every time there is a sub it's pretty much code word for do whatever you want. And I'm not a person that is good at dealing out discipline.


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I'd hate to say it, but I am considering it. Or at least hoping I get into some accident and die so I don't have to worry about these things.