What are good psychology books I can read that'll help me dominate social situations better and pretty much get me whatever I want? If that makes senseAnother question along those lines is what are some psychology tricks/tips I can learn about that are applicable in the real world, particularly when dealing in business settings or other people? Thanks brizzy
Quote from: Jive Turkey on January 16, 2016, 02:55:51 PMWhat are good psychology books I can read that'll help me dominate social situations better and pretty much get me whatever I want? If that makes senseAnother question along those lines is what are some psychology tricks/tips I can learn about that are applicable in the real world, particularly when dealing in business settings or other people? Thanks brizzyLiterally just go to the library and pick up some book with an appropriate title. "Body Language blah blah""How People See You""Why We Remember Certain People, And Not Others"
Why do some men want to see the world burn?
Do you think tulpas are as fucked up as I do?
Why do we fear death?
Quote from: Prime Megaten on January 16, 2016, 01:09:02 PMWhy do we fear death?For the immediate panic and reaction to a grisly fate?I would be inclined to think that's to do with simple biological programming.If you look at the basic impulses of a life-form, avoidance of injury (pain) is a pretty strong command signal. Sticking your hand on a radiator that is too hot results in you moving away and probably swearing before you've had time to think.For the more existential stuff?Egh that's pretty open ended.You could look at the effects of consciousness, how a person enjoys living and dislikes the cessation of enjoyment (Skinnerites) or from a more cognitive standpoint.Fear of the unknown, fear of not finishing what you wanted to complete, fear of causing pain to loved ones. There are lots of ways to look at why we fear death and I think it will vary greatly from person to person.I would fear death because it's the end of my usefulness on this planet, I'll quite probably die thinking that I could have done more to help others and that will suck shit through a straw.That might be quite different from someone who fears death because they love the baser things in life (money, cars, nightclubs etc) and they don't want the party to stop.
How do you reconcile the concept of mental disease with the nature of evolution meaning that change and mutation are natural? Where does one draw the line between mental abnormality and mutation?
Have you done any therapy yet?
If so what was your weirdest experience so far?
Is sociopathy, psychopathy and ASPD the same thing? I seem to be getting conflicting answers on this one.
Are you going for a PhD?
How much do you know about cognitive distortions?
Also how much do you know of CBT? (Cognitive Behavior Therapy)
Is this man crazy for thinking he could build this city on rock & roll?
when will america realize how awful juries are
Quote from: TBlocks on January 16, 2016, 02:12:06 PMHave you done any therapy yet? As a practitioner? Not yetAs a patient? Extensively
QuoteIf so what was your weirdest experience so far?The moment of bizarre amusement as I sat in a family therapy session wondering how this eejit got to be qualified. This eejit being the psychologist running the session, If I wasn't so irritated by the atrocious way he handled my younger brothers I probably would have been laughing in his face that day.Ask the question again in a couple of years and I might have some fun stories to tell from the perspective I think you were hoping for
QuoteIs sociopathy, psychopathy and ASPD the same thing? I seem to be getting conflicting answers on this one.Yes, No, Maybe, I don't know.The trouble with psychology is that you can use any number of different terms to refer to the same condition.MDD, MD, Clinical Depression, Severe Depression etc are all the same condition.With Socio/Psycho/ASPD it's a tricky one. The way I have it pinned in my head, which is by no means definitive but there is no definitive answer here sooooSociopath - Someone who exhibits the traits as a result of abuse in early childhood (i.e Socially made)Psychopath - Someone who exhibits the traits from an early age, without a history of abuse (i.e genetically made 'the warrior gene')ASPD - the mincing fluffy way of diagnosing someone as a psychopath without the same level of stigma because the idiots who take a diagnosis of psychopathy and run to the press screaming tall tales of serial killers tend to be below the cognitive ability to pay attention to the term 'Antisocial Personality Disorder'or to put it in a better light, it is the DSM's way of writing psychopathy as they believe it fits in better as a form of personality disorder rather than as a standalone clinical diagnosis. (I don't really agree here)
QuoteAre you going for a PhD?Yes and NoDepending on your country it might be written as ClinPsyD or PsyD or PhD but it's all the same thing, just different ways of writing out 'Doctor of Clinical Psychology'so yeseventually
QuoteHow much do you know about cognitive distortions?I'm afraid this might need a bit more elaboration, the term doesn't quite fit into a category but I'm farily sure I know a bit about any of the possibilities.Do you mean someone who holds FUBAR cognitive schemas that result in distorted patterns of thinking?or someone who holds delusions at the cognitive level?
QuoteAlso how much do you know of CBT? (Cognitive Behavior Therapy)A fair bit, from the theoretical and patient level.It's certainly one of the better psychological therapies out there.
How does the language that synapses use to convey memories and thoughts look like? Is this a more effective language than everything that we have so far? Sure, neurons receive and send signal substances, but dopamine or some other stuff isn't gonna make me remember the colour and shape of a tv. In fact, even if there is some substance that conveys that sort of information, how does the pattern or w/e compare to remembering other objects?See, your field seems boring when comapred to these questions imo If we answer these questions, we could display our dreams and thoughts on tv, and we'd be able to transfer data to the mind at a remarkable pace. In fact, schools would be null, and we'd be able to control peoples' thoughts.
Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on January 16, 2016, 04:55:51 PMQuote from: Prime Megaten on January 16, 2016, 01:09:02 PMWhy do we fear death?For the immediate panic and reaction to a grisly fate?I would be inclined to think that's to do with simple biological programming.If you look at the basic impulses of a life-form, avoidance of injury (pain) is a pretty strong command signal. Sticking your hand on a radiator that is too hot results in you moving away and probably swearing before you've had time to think.For the more existential stuff?Egh that's pretty open ended.You could look at the effects of consciousness, how a person enjoys living and dislikes the cessation of enjoyment (Skinnerites) or from a more cognitive standpoint.Fear of the unknown, fear of not finishing what you wanted to complete, fear of causing pain to loved ones. There are lots of ways to look at why we fear death and I think it will vary greatly from person to person.I would fear death because it's the end of my usefulness on this planet, I'll quite probably die thinking that I could have done more to help others and that will suck shit through a straw.That might be quite different from someone who fears death because they love the baser things in life (money, cars, nightclubs etc) and they don't want the party to stop.The latter question, but I guess both are good answers. It's hard to phrase it in a way that is psychological and not philosophical.
Quote from: Korra Kenobi on January 16, 2016, 01:03:49 PMWhy do some men want to see the world burn?Because they don't like tangerines.
Quote from: Mr. Psychologist on January 16, 2016, 05:29:32 PMQuote from: TBlocks on January 16, 2016, 02:12:06 PMHave you done any therapy yet? As a practitioner? Not yetAs a patient? ExtensivelyOh dear. I remember that. >.>
QuoteQuoteIs sociopathy, psychopathy and ASPD the same thing? I seem to be getting conflicting answers on this one.Yes, No, Maybe, I don't know.The trouble with psychology is that you can use any number of different terms to refer to the same condition.MDD, MD, Clinical Depression, Severe Depression etc are all the same condition.With Socio/Psycho/ASPD it's a tricky one. The way I have it pinned in my head, which is by no means definitive but there is no definitive answer here sooooSociopath - Someone who exhibits the traits as a result of abuse in early childhood (i.e Socially made)Psychopath - Someone who exhibits the traits from an early age, without a history of abuse (i.e genetically made 'the warrior gene')ASPD - the mincing fluffy way of diagnosing someone as a psychopath without the same level of stigma because the idiots who take a diagnosis of psychopathy and run to the press screaming tall tales of serial killers tend to be below the cognitive ability to pay attention to the term 'Antisocial Personality Disorder'or to put it in a better light, it is the DSM's way of writing psychopathy as they believe it fits in better as a form of personality disorder rather than as a standalone clinical diagnosis. (I don't really agree here)Ah yeah, similar to what my Dad said, especially on ASPD. This seems to be the answer from all the people who have actually studied psych.
QuoteQuoteAre you going for a PhD?Yes and NoDepending on your country it might be written as ClinPsyD or PsyD or PhD but it's all the same thing, just different ways of writing out 'Doctor of Clinical Psychology'so yeseventuallyAh I didn't know it was different. But yes, having the title of Dr.
QuoteQuoteHow much do you know about cognitive distortions?I'm afraid this might need a bit more elaboration, the term doesn't quite fit into a category but I'm farily sure I know a bit about any of the possibilities.Do you mean someone who holds FUBAR cognitive schemas that result in distorted patterns of thinking?or someone who holds delusions at the cognitive level?That might be it, it's pretty closely related with CBT iirc. Say an example of a patient jumping to conclusions (jumping to conclusions being one of the distortions) and being anxious because of doing so. I'm not sure what they're called beyond that so...
QuoteQuoteAlso how much do you know of CBT? (Cognitive Behavior Therapy)A fair bit, from the theoretical and patient level.It's certainly one of the better psychological therapies out there.Have you started thinking about what type(?) of therapy you would use regularly. (If that's a thing, i'm not entirely sure.) Or does it vary on the patient?
QuoteQuoteQuoteHow much do you know about cognitive distortions?I'm afraid this might need a bit more elaboration, the term doesn't quite fit into a category but I'm farily sure I know a bit about any of the possibilities.Do you mean someone who holds FUBAR cognitive schemas that result in distorted patterns of thinking?or someone who holds delusions at the cognitive level?That might be it, it's pretty closely related with CBT iirc. Say an example of a patient jumping to conclusions (jumping to conclusions being one of the distortions) and being anxious because of doing so. I'm not sure what they're called beyond that so...Ahh, yes in that case I do.Faulty schemas, assumptions and leaps of logic that go on in people's minds are what CBT sets out to correct.The example of someone you know not saying hello to you in the street can be explained asFaulty - they are ignoring me on purpose, they must dislike me or i've done something wrong -> avoid in futureNormal - They were probably just busy or preoccupied, not a big deal I'll send them a message sometime and see how they are
[pls no more spoilers it breaks the quotes and it took me 10 mins to fix this reply ;-;]