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We knew the world would not be the same.
A few people laughed, a few people cried, most people were silent.
I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.
And like I said, I'm not denying that gender identity is biologically driven. I'm saying the psychological damage people experience from it is largely, if not entirely due to social norms regarding gender roles and what is/what isn't normal.
Most of the damage is mostly caused from the incredibly hostile discrimination.
Teenagers have a tough enough time getting through high school and puberty. Pretty much every person out there that grew up with dysphoria can tell you how they became dangerously depressed as soon as they hit puberty, (whether they understand why they're depressed at the time or not) then sprinkle in cruel bullying tactics and maybe some parents who refuse to understand, and you've got a recipe for a mental disaster that could linger for a lifetime.


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So you agree that it is due to the social climate?


 
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We knew the world would not be the same.
A few people laughed, a few people cried, most people were silent.
I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.
The main damaging aspects, sure. But societal climate is not the cause.


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Sounds about right


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Well, no, I don't necessarily think social climate is the cause of gender dysphoria. But I do think it's the cause of the detrimental aspects.


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Well, no, I don't necessarily think social climate is the cause of gender dysphoria. But I do think it's the cause of the detrimental aspects.
Is an incongruity between what you desire to experience from your body (in a sexual manner for example) and what you are capable of experiencing not detrimental to someone's mental health? Is an innate inability to satisfy one's own sexuality not a serious issue not caused by social pressures?

or shit im getting this confused with body dysphoria aren't i
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I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.
Well, no, I don't necessarily think social climate is the cause of gender dysphoria. But I do think it's the cause of the detrimental aspects.
Most, yes. You'd be correct there. However dysphoria on its own has its damaging effects, but it would make it easier to handle if you grow up in a welcoming environment.


 
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We knew the world would not be the same.
A few people laughed, a few people cried, most people were silent.
I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.
Is an incongruity between what you desire to experience from your body (in a sexual manner for example) and what you are capable of experiencing not detrimental to someone's mental health? Is an innate inability to satisfy one's own sexuality not a serious issue not caused by social pressures?
That's a good point, a lot of trans people have shared that sex was just unfulfilling, unsatisfying, or just felt all wrong. That alone can be quite damaging.


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as I've said in bungle, transgender does not exist because gender does not exist.


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This is not the greatest sig in the world, no. This is just a tribute.
as I've said in bungle, transgender does not exist because gender does not exist.
But it does.

Gender roles are more of a social construct at this point, but gender is a physical construct that affects the chemical makeup of the brain.


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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?


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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.


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as I've said in bungle, transgender does not exist because gender does not exist.
But it does.

Gender roles are more of a social construct at this point, but gender is a physical construct that affects the chemical makeup of the brain.

I don't consider the physical makeup of the brain to be separate from the body, because the brain is in fact part of the body.

thus, "gender" is only a small part of the whole that is "sex"


 
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We knew the world would not be the same.
A few people laughed, a few people cried, most people were silent.
I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.
as I've said in bungle, transgender does not exist because gender does not exist.
But it does.

Gender roles are more of a social construct at this point, but gender is a physical construct that affects the chemical makeup of the brain.

I don't consider the physical makeup of the brain to be separate from the body, because the brain is in fact part of the body.

thus, "gender" is only a small part of the whole that is "sex"
You're a guy, right? Try saying that again after you've lived with estrogen pumped in you body for a year or so and tell me it doesn't have any psychological effects.


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I would still have  penis and balls, so I would probably still consider myself a guy.


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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.

Nah, if you're an ignorant asshole you just let them suffer with dysphoria instead of being honest about it and trying to solve it. Yes, cuddle their feelings so they can suffer a little less than finding an outright cure.

Fucking idiot.


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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.

Nah, if you're an ignorant asshole you just let them suffer with dysphoria instead of being honest about it and trying to solve it. Yes, cuddle their feelings so they can suffer a little less than finding an outright cure.

Fucking idiot.
"cure"

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Transgenderism is not normal. It's the opposite of normal, something's in fact very wrong with it.
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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.

Nah, if you're an ignorant asshole you just let them suffer with dysphoria instead of being honest about it and trying to solve it. Yes, cuddle their feelings so they can suffer a little less than finding an outright cure.

Fucking idiot.
"cure"

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Yeah. Having your biological wiring fucked up is not normal, and you're lying to yourself if you think it is. If it would be normal for nature to make males who want to be females and vice versa, we wouldn't be having this conversation. But that's not the case, is it?


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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.

Nah, if you're an ignorant asshole you just let them suffer with dysphoria instead of being honest about it and trying to solve it. Yes, cuddle their feelings so they can suffer a little less than finding an outright cure.

Fucking idiot.
"cure"

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Yeah. Having your biological wiring fucked up is not normal, and you're lying to yourself if you think it is. If it would be normal for nature to make males who want to be females and vice versa, we wouldn't be having this conversation. But that's not the case, is it?
Please define your use of "normal"

do you mean "occurring in a majority of people" or do you mean "occurring naturally"?


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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.

Nah, if you're an ignorant asshole you just let them suffer with dysphoria instead of being honest about it and trying to solve it. Yes, cuddle their feelings so they can suffer a little less than finding an outright cure.

Fucking idiot.
"cure"

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Yeah. Having your biological wiring fucked up is not normal, and you're lying to yourself if you think it is. If it would be normal for nature to make males who want to be females and vice versa, we wouldn't be having this conversation. But that's not the case, is it?
Please define your use of "normal"

do you mean "occurring in a majority of people" or do you mean "occurring naturally"?

Both.


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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.

Nah, if you're an ignorant asshole you just let them suffer with dysphoria instead of being honest about it and trying to solve it. Yes, cuddle their feelings so they can suffer a little less than finding an outright cure.

Fucking idiot.
"cure"

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Yeah. Having your biological wiring fucked up is not normal, and you're lying to yourself if you think it is. If it would be normal for nature to make males who want to be females and vice versa, we wouldn't be having this conversation. But that's not the case, is it?
Please define your use of "normal"

do you mean "occurring in a majority of people" or do you mean "occurring naturally"?

Both.
Then you're fucking wrong.


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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.

Nah, if you're an ignorant asshole you just let them suffer with dysphoria instead of being honest about it and trying to solve it. Yes, cuddle their feelings so they can suffer a little less than finding an outright cure.

Fucking idiot.
"cure"

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Yeah. Having your biological wiring fucked up is not normal, and you're lying to yourself if you think it is. If it would be normal for nature to make males who want to be females and vice versa, we wouldn't be having this conversation. But that's not the case, is it?
Please define your use of "normal"

do you mean "occurring in a majority of people" or do you mean "occurring naturally"?

Both.
Then you're fucking wrong.

That's why transgender people struggle with depression, right? That's why it's completely normal and "natural", right?

You're fucking stupid AND wrong.


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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.

Nah, if you're an ignorant asshole you just let them suffer with dysphoria instead of being honest about it and trying to solve it. Yes, cuddle their feelings so they can suffer a little less than finding an outright cure.

Fucking idiot.
"cure"

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Yeah. Having your biological wiring fucked up is not normal, and you're lying to yourself if you think it is. If it would be normal for nature to make males who want to be females and vice versa, we wouldn't be having this conversation. But that's not the case, is it?
Please define your use of "normal"

do you mean "occurring in a majority of people" or do you mean "occurring naturally"?

Both.
Then you're fucking wrong.

That's why transgender people struggle with depression, right? That's why it's completely normal and "natural", right?

You're fucking stupid AND wrong.
Who said something natural was always happiness and rainbows and sunshine?


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Transgenderism is not normal. It's the opposite of normal, something's in fact very wrong with it.
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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.

Nah, if you're an ignorant asshole you just let them suffer with dysphoria instead of being honest about it and trying to solve it. Yes, cuddle their feelings so they can suffer a little less than finding an outright cure.

Fucking idiot.
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Yeah. Having your biological wiring fucked up is not normal, and you're lying to yourself if you think it is. If it would be normal for nature to make males who want to be females and vice versa, we wouldn't be having this conversation. But that's not the case, is it?
Please define your use of "normal"

do you mean "occurring in a majority of people" or do you mean "occurring naturally"?

Both.
Then you're fucking wrong.

That's why transgender people struggle with depression, right? That's why it's completely normal and "natural", right?

You're fucking stupid AND wrong.
Who said something natural was always happiness and rainbows and sunshine?

Hm, I guess terrible diseases are okay and normal, too. Ya know, like Harlequin-type ichthyosis. Yeah, we shouldn't look for a cure or solution for that at ALL


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Transgenderism is not normal. It's the opposite of normal, something's in fact very wrong with it.
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Oh, so it's completely normal and not an issue at all?
Yeah, if you're not an ignorant asshole.

Nah, if you're an ignorant asshole you just let them suffer with dysphoria instead of being honest about it and trying to solve it. Yes, cuddle their feelings so they can suffer a little less than finding an outright cure.

Fucking idiot.
"cure"

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Yeah. Having your biological wiring fucked up is not normal, and you're lying to yourself if you think it is. If it would be normal for nature to make males who want to be females and vice versa, we wouldn't be having this conversation. But that's not the case, is it?
Please define your use of "normal"

do you mean "occurring in a majority of people" or do you mean "occurring naturally"?

Both.
Then you're fucking wrong.

That's why transgender people struggle with depression, right? That's why it's completely normal and "natural", right?

You're fucking stupid AND wrong.
Who said something natural was always happiness and rainbows and sunshine?

Hm, I guess terrible diseases are okay and normal, too. Ya know, like Harlequin-type ichthyosis. Yeah, we shouldn't look for a cure or solution for that at ALL
I'm not sure what your point is. I never said transgender people shouldn't seek therapy and treatment.


 
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Just, well, you know. Something small here.

A quick question. What would you call a normal human being? Can you give me a very strict and refined set of parameters that fill this portion of "normal" on the meter?


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Just, well, you know. Something small here.

A quick question. What would you call a normal human being? Can you give me a very strict and refined set of parameters that fill this portion of "normal" on the meter?
Straight, white, Christian male. Duh.


 
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We knew the world would not be the same.
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I remembered the line from the Hindu scripture, the Bhagavad-Gita.
Vishnu is trying to persuade the Prince that he should do his duty
and to impress him takes on his multi-armed form and says,
"Now, I am become Death, the destroyer of worlds.."
I suppose we all thought that one way or another.
Again:
Here's the thing. You can change the body to suit the mind, but you can't change the mind to suit the body. You can cure dysphoria and have a perfectly normal, happy and functioning individual.

If you're thinking of "cures," the cure is allowing the person to transition if they want to. It's not something that should be forced, but it shouldn't be a massive obstacle either.

If you're thinking about something to "fix" the mental wiring, that goes just as badly if not worse than gay conversion therapy.


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Just, well, you know. Something small here.

A quick question. What would you call a normal human being? Can you give me a very strict and refined set of parameters that fill this portion of "normal" on the meter?
Straight, white, Christian male. Duh.

No, but okay. Let your liberal bias skew your vision of reality.