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unfortunately we're probably several billion years off from reaching our evolutionary height.
We could achieve it within the next century if everyone stopped reproducing.

Nothingness is indistinguishable from total utopic perfection.


 
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So you want pain to not exist? Pain is a good thing, it tells you when you're fucked.
That's the problem, though. The game itself is designed poorly. You can argue that pain is a good thing, because it's our bodies' way of telling us that we're in danger, but that's the thing--the fact that danger exists at all in the first place is the problem.

Besides, if I have a broken leg, I'm going to be on the ground in agonizing pain until somebody finds me. What I should be able to do is tell my body, "Yeah, okay, I get it--my leg is broken, and I can't use it. Stop telling me."

Then I could probably move to someplace where I could get some help, instead of waiting for somebody to find me, because I'm too weak to move/am in complete shock.

But we can't do that, so the way I see it, pain is poorly designed. But the fact that it's even possible to get hurt in this universe is an even bigger flaw in itself.

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Without any sense of feeling humans might as well not exist, because there's no incentive to have anything done if you're just a sack of meat.
Agreed. That's why I want all life to cease to exist, because the ultimate goal of sentient life (a perfect utopia where there is no pain, suffering, conflict, or discomfort) is not only completely impossible--it would also render life completely pointless.

So that's my philosophy--we'd be better off not existing. You don't have to agree with me, but that's how I see it.

Why waste the effort of achieving a utopia when the utopia is just one global extinction away?
too bad no one wants to go extinct


 
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too bad no one wants to go extinct
For no rational reason.

No one's crying over the lack of Martians--the universe wouldn't give a fuck if we were extinct, either.

There is no need for us to be here.


 
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unfortunately we're probably several billion years off from reaching our evolutionary height.
We could achieve it within the next century if everyone stopped reproducing.

Nothingness is indistinguishable from total utopic perfection.

I don't buy the nothingness card though. And I sure as hell don't buy the perfection card either.

We could probably and potentially do a lot of things in the next century if we put our heads in the game. But that's not the way the game works, sadly. Or at least, silly old people.



 
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I don't buy the nothingness card though. And I sure as hell don't buy the perfection card either.

We could probably and potentially do a lot of things in the next century if we put our heads in the game. But that's not the way the game works, sadly. Or at least, silly old people.
Which is precisely why we should die, you see? It's not worth the effort. It just isn't.

I don't know what you mean by "I don't buy the nothingness card." You think there's an afterlife?

The fact that there is no "perfection card" is part of the whole problem.


 
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Whenever I make arguments about how reality should be, people are always like, "Well, maybe that's how reality should be--but it's never going to happen, so arguing about it is pointless. We have to play with the hand we're dealt."

But see, no you don't. The whole point of my philosophy is to reject the game. There is nothing out there obliging us to continue playing such a poorly-designed game, and there is no valid justification for continuing it, beyond your piddly psychological and egocentric desires.

"I think life is cool. I'm glad I was born."

I'm glad I was circumcised--but I'm sure you wouldn't tell me that circumcision is okay.

If the game doesn't work, and there is no way to improve it, you stop playing the game. And you stop playing the game by ceasing to reproduce for the rest of time. It's not nearly as scary as it sounds--in fact, it's the best thing ever.
so, killing yourself...?


 
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so, killing yourself...?
No. Refusing to reproduce, thereby ending the perpetuation of meaningless suffering for the rest of time.

Nobody has to commit suicide.


 
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so, killing yourself...?
No. Refusing to reproduce, thereby ending the perpetuation of meaningless suffering for the rest of time.

Nobody has to commit suicide.
well it'd be hard to convince everyone to stop having sex, so.....


 
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well it'd be hard to convince everyone to stop having sex, so.....
You wouldn't even have to stop having sex--you can have all the sex you want.

Just, you know, don't ever get pregnant. Use protection. Have abortions.

If you really want to have a kid, you could always adopt.


 
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well it'd be hard to convince everyone to stop having sex, so.....
You wouldn't even have to stop having sex--you can have all the sex you want.

Just, you know, don't ever get pregnant. Use protection. Have abortions.

If you really want to have a kid, you could always adopt.
Well I'm not sure if this is true, but I heard condoms break or something sometimes? Probably not true though.
Pills don't usually work.
You'd prolly have to convince everyone to become infertile for maximum efficiency.

Not everyone is happy to have an abortion.

People usually want kids of their own over adopted kids.


 
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I don't buy the nothingness card though. And I sure as hell don't buy the perfection card either.

We could probably and potentially do a lot of things in the next century if we put our heads in the game. But that's not the way the game works, sadly. Or at least, silly old people.
Which is precisely why we should die, you see? It's not worth the effort. It just isn't.

I don't know what you mean by "I don't buy the nothingness card." You think there's an afterlife?

The fact that there is no "perfection card" is part of the whole problem.

First part comes down to personal perception on things.

And I hesitate to call it an afterlife. When I eventually die, I don't think I'm just gonna pop up on some astral plane somewhere being the same person I am now. I don't really think there's anything I could say to describe it because I don't know what would. But I don't think it's "empty" nothing. I think it's something nobody's really expecting. And I think people are ignorant if they think it's something peachy like heaven or some dark void devoid of anything.

And people in general are fools for thinking that what they see in front of them is all there is to it. We're a setup of complex physical systems yet we're still primitive. We're so "locked" to the physical, if you will.

Hell, look at our universe. It showed up from an explosion that came from nothing, supposedly. So if our universe can pull a magic trick like that, then honestly, I'm left seriously doubting that what if anything, on the other side of living is even understandable to us until we get there.



 
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Well I'm not sure if this is true, but I heard condoms break or something sometimes? Probably not true though.
Pills don't usually work.
You'd prolly have to convince everyone to become infertile for maximum efficiency.

Not everyone is happy to have an abortion.

People usually want kids of their own over adopted kids.
Yeah, condoms can definitely break, if you're, uh, really getting into it. No form of contraception is 100% efficient, except (obviously) abstinence and abortions. That's why most responsible people use combinations--but nothing is guaranteed, which is why it's very important that people must be okay with abortion.

Not everyone's happy to have an abortion, sure, but people are growing more and more comfortable with it as time goes on. There might come a day when every woman is willing to get one, who knows. But by the time that happens, we might come up with even better forms of contraception.

We also have vasectomies and tubectomies, remember. If you don't know, vasectomies are when you physically cut off the vas deferens, preventing sperm from flowing out (there's still semen--it just doesn't contain any sperm). I'm sure you've at least heard of tubectomies--that's when you get your "tubes tied," or your fallopian tubes removed.

So those are options. But yeah, the more we educate people, I think, the more comfortable they will be with things like abortion, adoption, and alternative forms of contraception. Just because people think one way today, doesn't mean they'll be thinking the same way in the future.


 
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Well I'm not sure if this is true, but I heard condoms break or something sometimes? Probably not true though.
Pills don't usually work.
You'd prolly have to convince everyone to become infertile for maximum efficiency.

Not everyone is happy to have an abortion.

People usually want kids of their own over adopted kids.
Yeah, condoms can definitely break, if you're, uh, really getting into it. No form of contraception is 100% efficient, except (obviously) abstinence and abortions. That's why most responsible people use combinations--but nothing is guaranteed, which is why it's very important that people must be okay with abortion.

Not everyone's happy to have an abortion, sure, but people are growing more and more comfortable with it as time goes on. There might come a day when every woman is willing to get one, who knows. But by the time that happens, we might come up with even better forms of contraception.

We also have vasectomies and tubectomies, remember. If you don't know, vasectomies are when you physically cut off the vas deferens, preventing sperm from flowing out (there's still semen--it just doesn't contain any sperm). I'm sure you've at least heard of tubectomies--that's when you get your "tubes tied," or your fallopian tubes removed.

So those are options. But yeah, the more we educate people, I think, the more comfortable they will be with things like abortion, adoption, and alternative forms of contraception. Just because people think one way today, doesn't mean they'll be thinking the same way in the future.
My cousin's wife got her tubes tied and I have another cousin that got a vasectomy when he was drunk somewhere in the middle east.


 
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My cousin's wife got her tubes tied and I have another cousin that got a vasectomy when he was drunk somewhere in the middle east.
I see. That's... not something you read every day.

But yeah, I just hope you see where I'm coming from now. I don't at all expect you to agree with me (I'd be kinda worried if you did, to be honest), but as long as you understand my perspective better, that's what's important to me.

If nothing else, it's something to think about, I'd hope.


 
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My cousin's wife got her tubes tied and I have another cousin that got a vasectomy when he was drunk somewhere in the middle east.
I see. That's... not something you read every day.

But yeah, I just hope you see where I'm coming from now. I don't at all expect you to agree with me (I'd be kinda worried if you did, to be honest), but as long as you understand my perspective better, that's what's important to me.

If nothing else, it's something to think about, I'd hope.
Yeah I understand. Even if I don't agree, you're still entitled to your own opinion  :)


 
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Which is precisely why we should die, you see? It's not worth the effort. It just isn't.

And, when you think about it, technically we all die anyway. It's not something you can really avoid. I can't refute that and say "oh geez we shouldn't die" because it is going to happen at some point anyway. If you don't die of old age it might be through some outside factor.

And regardless of small time factors like diseases and shit, one day a giant rock might put the slam dunk on our planet. Our sun will expand eventually. It might shoot out a burst of radiation our magnetic field and various protective layers can't handle. You name it. It'll happen some day.

Which essentially makes your belief just a shortcut really.




 
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And, when you think about it, technically we all die anyway. It's not something you can really avoid. I can't refute that and say "oh geez we shouldn't die" because it is going to happen at some point anyway. If you don't die of old age it might be through some outside factor.

And regardless of small time factors like diseases and shit, one day a giant rock might put the slam dunk on our planet. Our sun will expand eventually. It might shoot out a burst of radiation our magnetic field and various protective layers can't handle. You name it. It'll happen some day.

Which essentially makes your belief just a shortcut really.
That's true, but I wouldn't really call that a "shortcut," necessarily. If everyone on the planet became an anti-natalist today, we would be extinct by the year 2150~, give or take a couple decades. So, a century and a half.

We have the predictive capabilities of gauging not only an asteroid's size, but when it will hit us, where it will hit us, and if it will cause any significant damage. The chances of an asteroid destroying the world? I mean, it's... astronomical. There's so many variables, and it's safe to say that we're never gonna be in any imminent danger.

The sun, on the other hand, won't be due for expansion for another five b-b-b-BILLION years.

So yeah, sure, there's many apocalyptic scenarios that we could endure, but the fastest, most ethical, and most peaceful way to go out (that I can think of) would most certainly be in the form of anti-natalism.
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So, although your belief is just technically a shortcut on the end result of everything that's alive, I'm not sold on everything that's alive or ever has been alive just suddenly vanishing into completely nothing when we have a universe that, by our current perception of things, came from out of fucking nowhere just because. Truthfully, I don't think there's a concrete end to anything that exists. Just a phase shift.

And, like I said previously, we as people, in our amazing biological engineering, but still primitive and limited perception and heads, are locked to our physical world. I don't find the thought of everybody dying very comforting. Because I have in my life an example of somebody, who, if they were never born, would not have helped me persevere up to the point where I'm at now.

And I pay my respects to that person every day by trying to help whenever and wherever I can. I know that I can't and won't always be able to. But I want to try and preserve their happiness for as long as I'm able to.

To be fair, you might say that person wouldn't be neccessary for me in the first place if both I, and they did not exist. But that person enjoys their life. And I enjoy being there to help. I enjoy being a landlubber locked to this simplistc sort of physical world. And even you do too, since you have interests and goals and things you want to pursue.

I don't actually think your belief is neccessarrily wrong, since, if we look at it in a logical way, we all die anyway right? But I think were it strays into the wrong is the application that it should be applied to everybody. That it should be a movement that overtakes everything.

That's just human ambition and greed talking. "My view is right, everybody should follow it." You know what happens as an organization gets bigger? It gets messy. Diluted, corrupted, fragmented. However.

There's nothing that says you, or anybody else who doesn't want to partake in this particular existence is obligated to stay. And that's what should be focused on instead. Letting folks go who don't want to stay. Let's assume for a minute that there really is fuck all after you die.

What feasible difference would the supposed suffering of everything else make to you if you suddenly died right now? Nothing. And it wouldn't make a difference to you either if everybody else keeled over. One way or another you end up at the same conclusion no matter what happens. Pointless suffering of everything? Who gives a shit? You're dead now. You played your hand and that was that. You don't need to care since you're dead now and you don't exist.

So, rather than a movement, I think your ideology would be better suited for individuals who make the choice themselves, since if we're talking about death, everybody arrives at the same stop no matter what happens. Sooner, or later, it actually really doesn't matter.

Let the folks who feel like rolling in the mud roll in the mud. And the folks who don't want to roll around in the mud? If we lived in a society with less restrictions and a little provided assistance, then they would have that option to consider in a cleaner sense.





 
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I mean, stop for one second and think of this.

Convincing Donald Trump to be an anti-natalist.

Universe coming from nothing? Doesn't really make sense, but okay.

But Overlord Trump being an anti-natalist?

Mathematically impossible.


 
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And, when you think about it, technically we all die anyway. It's not something you can really avoid. I can't refute that and say "oh geez we shouldn't die" because it is going to happen at some point anyway. If you don't die of old age it might be through some outside factor.

And regardless of small time factors like diseases and shit, one day a giant rock might put the slam dunk on our planet. Our sun will expand eventually. It might shoot out a burst of radiation our magnetic field and various protective layers can't handle. You name it. It'll happen some day.

Which essentially makes your belief just a shortcut really.
That's true, but I wouldn't really call that a "shortcut," necessarily. If everyone on the planet became an anti-natalist today, we would be extinct by the year 2150~, give or take a couple decades. So, a century and a half.

We have the predictive capabilities of gauging not only an asteroid's size, but when it will hit us, where it will hit us, and if it will cause any significant damage. The chances of an asteroid destroying the world? I mean, it's... astronomical. There's so many variables, and it's safe to say that we're never gonna be in any imminent danger.

The sun, on the other hand, won't be due for expansion for another five b-b-b-BILLION years.

So yeah, sure, there's many apocalyptic scenarios that we could endure, but the fastest, most ethical, and most peaceful way to go out (that I can think of) would most certainly be in the form of anti-natalism.
If a decent sized astroid hit the earth it would do pretty big damage, especially if it hit the water.


 
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And, when you think about it, technically we all die anyway. It's not something you can really avoid. I can't refute that and say "oh geez we shouldn't die" because it is going to happen at some point anyway. If you don't die of old age it might be through some outside factor.

And regardless of small time factors like diseases and shit, one day a giant rock might put the slam dunk on our planet. Our sun will expand eventually. It might shoot out a burst of radiation our magnetic field and various protective layers can't handle. You name it. It'll happen some day.

Which essentially makes your belief just a shortcut really.
That's true, but I wouldn't really call that a "shortcut," necessarily. If everyone on the planet became an anti-natalist today, we would be extinct by the year 2150~, give or take a couple decades. So, a century and a half.

We have the predictive capabilities of gauging not only an asteroid's size, but when it will hit us, where it will hit us, and if it will cause any significant damage. The chances of an asteroid destroying the world? I mean, it's... astronomical. There's so many variables, and it's safe to say that we're never gonna be in any imminent danger.

The sun, on the other hand, won't be due for expansion for another five b-b-b-BILLION years.

So yeah, sure, there's many apocalyptic scenarios that we could endure, but the fastest, most ethical, and most peaceful way to go out (that I can think of) would most certainly be in the form of anti-natalism.
If a decent sized astroid hit the earth it would do pretty big damage, especially if it hit the water.

Actually we don't have the equipment to detect an asteroid on approach until it's too late.

And our earth's geological history shows that we've been hit by asteroids that didn't destroy the planet, but did wipe out likely almost 90% of all life. Verb's just for the extinction of people.

One of those suckers would do the job well enough.


 
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What feasible difference would the supposed suffering of everything else make to you if you suddenly died right now? Nothing. And it wouldn't make a difference to you either if everybody else keeled over. One way or another you end up at the same conclusion no matter what happens. Pointless suffering of everything? Who gives a shit? You're dead now. You played your hand and that was that. You don't need to care since you're dead now and you don't exist.

So, rather than a movement, I think your ideology would be better suited for individuals who make the choice themselves, since if we're talking about death, everybody arrives at the same stop no matter what happens. Sooner, or later, it actually really doesn't matter.

Let the folks who feel like rolling in the mud roll in the mud. And the folks who don't want to roll around in the mud? If we lived in a society with less restrictions and a little provided assistance, then they would have that option to consider in a cleaner sense.
I see where you're coming from with all this, but this last bit just rubs me the wrong way. You're not wrong--whether we voluntarily go extinct or not, we're all going to die anyway--which is technically the same conclusion.

Except mine's faster.

You can talk all you want about how our time is less than nothing to the universe. The longest time you can think of is faster than a blink to the grand scheme--so that must mean that our suffering is meaningless, right?

No, I don't buy that. I don't think we have to look at time from such a total, universal scale. Only our scale--the only scale that we can actually perceive--matters, because it's the only one we'll ever be able to experience. A year's worth of suffering is, to us, just that--a year's worth of suffering. It doesn't matter if it's nothing to the universe--who cares? What matters is us. I can see you calling that an arrogant viewpoint--I don't think it's arrogant at all.


 
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I bet Verbatim played Mass Effect rooting for the Reapers.
I haven't touched Mass Effect, actually.

I don't think I'd like it.

This thread has been thoroughly derailed.


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Now he's just gay
hey verb-atim  do you like anime?


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People usually want kids of their own over adopted kids.
Which is one of the most ape-ass, selfish desires out there.
The legit reason to not want to adopt is because the adoption process right now is cumbersome and takes forever. "muh genes" is grounds for not letting someone pass their genes IMO. I know you weren't saying that's what you felt but guh this one fucking infuriates me.


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"Like father like son"

Personally speaking, I would prefer to raise my own offspring over another, simply because there is good possibility my offspring's behavior is something akin to either me or my partner (or both) thus making how to approach raising them slightly easier. While there is a good possibility the child could be something completely different from the two of us, it's not as big of a gamble as adopting a child.

The other reason is as you stated, the process is very tedious. Screening the potential parents has a variety of problems and basically expects all parents to create the perfect child. News flash: That is not the reality, while parenting you WILL fuck up in some instances, that's an unavoidable fact, but it's all about reducing those mistakes and the ones your parents may have made when we we're raised. This fact however, is one child services doesn't believe in.

Which is one of the most ape-ass, selfish desires out there.
The legit reason to not want to adopt is because the adoption process right now is cumbersome and takes forever. "muh genes" is grounds for not letting someone pass their genes IMO. I know you weren't saying that's what you felt but guh this one fucking infuriates me.


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"Like father like son"

Personally speaking, I would prefer to raise my own offspring over another, simply because there is good possibility my offspring's behavior is something akin to either me or my partner (or both) thus making how to approach raising them slightly easier. While there is a good possibility the child could be something completely different from the two of us, it's not as big of a gamble as adopting a child.

The other reason is as you stated, the process is very tedious. Screening the potential parents has a variety of problems and basically expects all parents to create the perfect child. News flash: That is not the reality, while parenting you WILL fuck up in some instances, that's an unavoidable fact, but it's all about reducing those mistakes and the ones your parents may have made when we we're raised. This fact however, is one child services doesn't believe in.

Which is one of the most ape-ass, selfish desires out there.
The legit reason to not want to adopt is because the adoption process right now is cumbersome and takes forever. "muh genes" is grounds for not letting someone pass their genes IMO. I know you weren't saying that's what you felt but guh this one fucking infuriates me.
The only real behavioral inheretence is manifested in conditions like aspergers, which is an entire other touchy subject because just because the parents have learned to live at peace with something like that, it is not very ethical at all to knowingly put it on a child. Aspergers can lead to some crippling fucking depression and death.

Everything else has hardly any emperical basis though. If you try adopting a child who's well developed already, yeah they're coming in with a lot of conditioning outside your control, but waiting for a younger orphan isn't out of the question (again the system is the problem).

And I think people need to reframe how they see dealing with an adopted child's problems. It seems when people imagine an adopted's problems they suddenly feel like they don't have responsibility to help their child get through them. That's not how parenting works, if you want to be a parent you should want to assist your child with their problems no matter who's fault it is it happened.
Last Edit: January 29, 2016, 03:22:39 PM by eggsalad


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hedonic_treadmill

Impossible.
I'm pretty sure you're well-aware that it is philosophically disingenuous to try and pass off the hedonic treadmill as some kind of knock-down argument.