I'm extremely heartbroken. Never felt like this in my life. I don't want to live. I don't know what to do.

I never imagined I would live in a world where Chads would have such emotional struggles.

Anyways, have you considered therapy?

Too soon for therapy. It just happened emotions are fresh. Rationally I know I will be okay with time. I'm afraid I will doing something rash while I feel like this right now though

Think of it this way. You might've had a relationship that lasted most of your life. Boom your wife dies and leaves you alone for the final years of your life. Those last years without somebody you've had with you most of your life are a long, long crawl.

You also could've gotten into a heavier relationship and then been ditched, leaving with half of your possessions gone if you're a material kind of guy.

Your friends, your family, every person you know will eventually die. Some sooner than others. It will be painful when it arrives, no doubt. But the sooner that you accept that everything ends no matter what it is, you can carry on a little easier. Everything has it's time, and therefore you have to learn to let go.

What's done is done, and now it's gone. Keep the pleasant memories. Keep even the bad ones. But understand that it's over now. One door shuts but another one opens up to you. You go through it when you're ready.

Quote from: Sαndtrap on January 20, 2017, 12:24:53 PM

Think of it this way. You might've had a relationship that lasted most of your life. Boom your wife dies and leaves you alone for the final years of your life. Those last years without somebody you've had with you most of your life are a long, long crawl.

You also could've gotten into a heavier relationship and then been ditched, leaving with half of your possessions gone if you're a material kind of guy.

Your friends, your family, every person you know will eventually die. Some sooner than others. It will be painful when it arrives, no doubt. But the sooner that you accept that everything ends no matter what it is, you can carry on a little easier. Everything has it's time, and therefore you have to learn to let go.

What's done is done, and now it's gone. Keep the pleasant memories. Keep even the bad ones. But understand that it's over now. One door shuts but another one opens up to you. You go through it when you're ready.

this calms me down a lot. Thank you.

Make a note to remember that if things flare up. It's over. No matter what you do or what you try, there's no going back to what it was, and that means the only thing left for you to do is go forwards.