Considering a religious conversion

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Ive been seeing a girl of mine romantically for around 3 months and she's made me seriously consider converting to the Muslim faith.

I know this websites obvious hatred for the religion and can guess what some of you are going to comment but I feel like I can still live a peaceful life under it's guildelines.

It's really been the peaceful nature of my woman and her family that has won me over from my original religion. The contrast of my own family issues under the Christian faith compared to my gfs life are really boggling.

Any thoughts and opinions are welcome. But don't come here to just hate. Looking to get as many opinions before I commit



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Go for it. Islamist =/= Muslim

There are radical Christians, too. Doesn't make it "wrong" to be a Christian.


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Go for it. Islamist =/= Muslim

There are radical Christians, too. Doesn't make it "wrong" to be a Christian.


Exaclty. I feel like So many people don't look at religion/belief from an individual basis and it leads to blind hate


 
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Um... don't you people usually convert to Islam after you're in prison?

Jokes aside, you're basing this off of her family being more... together than yours? I'm not quite sure I follow the logic.


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Just sounds like you found yourself a nice girl who has a nice family. Doesn't necessarily mean you need to convert to her faith, nor is the faith the underlying cause of their pleasantness.


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Um... don't you people usually convert to Islam after you're in prison?

Jokes aside, you're basing this off of her family being more... together than yours? I'm not quite sure I follow the logic.

I see more cohesion and less room for argument under an Islamic family. And it promotes more investment in your paetner and a better relationship in my eyes


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Just sounds like you found yourself a nice girl who has a nice family. Doesn't necessarily mean you need to convert to her faith, nor is the faith the underlying cause of their pleasantness.

But Islam is a major part of my woman's life. She says it has been a driving factor of who she is as a person. I'D like to emulate that from my own future family.


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emigrate or degenerate. the choice is yours
Just sounds like you found yourself a nice girl who has a nice family. Doesn't necessarily mean you need to convert to her faith, nor is the faith the underlying cause of their pleasantness.

But Islam is a major part of my woman's life. She says it has been a driving factor of who she is as a person. I'D like to emulate that from my own future family.
Dude, do what you want, it's your life. All I'm saying is converting to a major faith is a dumbfuck thing to do for a girl who's probably going to dump your ass in a couple months anyway.

#thotpatrol


 
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Um... don't you people usually convert to Islam after you're in prison?

Jokes aside, you're basing this off of her family being more... together than yours? I'm not quite sure I follow the logic.

I see more cohesion and less room for argument under an Islamic family. And it promotes more investment in your paetner and a better relationship in my eyes
I mean, it can in westernized sects, but then again, we're back to that individual basis thing.


 
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Trust me, it has nothing to do with Islam and everything to do with the family. I found myself in an extremely similar situation to yours with a Christian girl.

That being said I'm surprised she would even date someone outside the faith -- that would be a deal breaker for some, especially if they're on the more devout side.


 
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Religion is good, when done right. So as long as you don't scream allahu ackbar in the middle of a mall with an AK-47 good for you.


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Just sounds like you found yourself a nice girl who has a nice family. Doesn't necessarily mean you need to convert to her faith, nor is the faith the underlying cause of their pleasantness.

But Islam is a major part of my woman's life. She says it has been a driving factor of who she is as a person. I'D like to emulate that from my own future family.
Dude, do what you want, it's your life. All I'm saying is converting to a major faith is a dumbfuck thing to do for a girl who's probably going to dump your ass in a couple months anyway.

#thotpatrol

What the fuck? She's not going to dump me. The fuck is your problem. I'm probebly going to marry this woman


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Trust me, it has nothing to do with Islam and everything to do with the family. I found myself in an extremely similar situation to yours with a Christian girl.

That being said I'm surprised she would even date someone outside the faith -- that would be a deal breaker for some, especially if they're on the more devout side.

Didn't you convert or something though?
I think her parents approved because I showed an early interest with the religion early on.

I'm pretty much passed the whole "logical" arguments against this religion. All I know and all that really matters is that this belief system makes me feel happy and that's what I desire mostly in life


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I'm not a fucking alt. Its honeslty kidna insulting to think someone thinks it contrived by someone else.


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I'm not a fucking alt. Its honeslty kidna insulting to think someone thinks it contrived by someone else.
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Stop while ur still entertained. you're not adding anything to the thread


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Dont convert over ass, Dat booty isnt that Akbah


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Seriously who's alt is this

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Stop while ur still entertained. you're not adding anything to the thread


The Quran says it's better to marry a slave than a non believer

Maybe that's why she's attracted to you


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Seriously who's alt is this

I'm not a fucking alt. Its honeslty kidna insulting to think someone thinks it contrived by someone else.
okay mr.alt

Stop while ur still entertained. you're not adding anything to the thread


The Quran says it's better to marry a slave than a non believer

Maybe that's why she's attracted to you

Lol yea ok the Quran also says to stone fags. maybe that's why those bruises of yours haven't healed   

Honeslty tho if ur not gonna discuss get out


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Dont convert over ass, Dat booty isnt that Akbah
The ass is halal


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Dont convert over ass, Dat booty isnt that Akbah
The ass is halal
Id consider it, but religion isnt something you can easily get out of, especially with a religious family. Just understand it and appreciate it.

No point committing that much even over a girl, if you make it to marriage then sure. But dont make that choice when youre young


Now go ram your truck into her French crowd.


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Dont convert over ass, Dat booty isnt that Akbah
The ass is halal
Id consider it, but religion isnt something you can easily get out of, especially with a religious family. Just understand it and appreciate it.

No point committing that much even over a girl, if you make it to marriage then sure. But dont make that choice when youre young


Now go ram your truck into her French crowd.
I get what you'r saying... I just feel as if I did reconsider after converting it would only be in the event that our relationship didn't work out. But I think I've truly met my soulmate.

I'm not going to be dogmatic about the religion anyway. And I'd always choose bring comfortable with my own beliefs before anything else


 
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Didn't you convert or something though?

Yeah, because she wouldn't have been with me if I didn't. I don't regret my conversion but it's hard to keep going without that incentive. If you're not converting to Islam for you then you're not really converting at all -- and not to mention, if things go sideways with her, you could end up just leaving the religion, which is a far greater offence in Islam than it is for virtually all other faiths.

But like I said, having a good family dynamic has nothing to do with their religion.


 
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okay mr.alt

Stop while ur still entertained. you're not adding anything to the thread


The Quran says it's better to marry a slave than a non believer

Maybe that's why she's attracted to you

Holy fuck lol


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I was with this Christian girl once.  A really nice southern girl, she took her faith pretty seriously.   I'm a Muslim and we would kind of just joke about it because I guess I'm not that serious about it besides praying every night and not eating disgusting ass pigs.  Like she would bring up some problem and I would say "oh don't worry Jesus has a plan for you" and she would reply "I know you're joking but it's true!"

Granted I'm not marrying this girl

This isn't the Middle Ages, religion doesn't need to be such an influence where you cut off potential partners


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Is this something you came up with on your own or something she suggested?


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I was with this Christian girl once.  A really nice southern girl, she took her faith pretty seriously.   I'm a Muslim and we would kind of just joke about it because I guess I'm not that serious about it besides praying every night and not eating disgusting ass pigs.  Like she would bring up some problem and I would say "oh don't worry Jesus has a plan for you" and she would reply "I know you're joking but it's true!"

Granted I'm not marrying this girl

This isn't the Middle Ages, religion doesn't need to be such an influence where you cut off potential partners

Being religious is a choice, so your point doesn't rlly hold any ground. Also I'm marrying this woman