7 Family Issues Pope Francis Should - But Won't - Discuss

 
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A good article.

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1. The Church should stop treating women as second-class people, and not just in family issues. Women should have the same rights and privileges as men in the Church. We can only dream that one day there will be a Pope Frances. At this point, women cannot even be priests.

2. It’s time to end the Church’s celibacy requirement for priests and nuns. While promoting natural law, the Church fails to acknowledge how unnatural celibacy is. Here’s a novel idea: Shouldn’t priests be viewed as role models with families, rather than as unquestionable messengers who act as necessary intermediaries to God?

3. The Church should give high priority to eliminating family poverty caused by having too many children. Provide evidence-based sex education for young people, especially since abstinence-only programs have such a high failure rate. Permit abortion under some circumstances and encourage contraception. Pregnant teenagers are not ready to start families of two and are likely to drop out of school. Education for women is a primary method of reducing poverty.

4. The Church should recognize that masturbation is not a sin. It is natural and healthy safe sex, giving harmless pleasure to individuals without leading to unwanted pregnancies or venereal disease.

5. Regarding gays, Pope Francis, move away from “Love the sinner, but hate the sin.” If two responsible and mature people love each other, are in a committed relationship, and would like to marry, you should be willing to bless such a union. And please stop telling people that the purpose of marriage is to have children, since you sometimes perform marriages for heterosexual couples who are incapable of having children.

6. Please recognize that it is degrading to have celibate male priests passing themselves off as experts on sexual advice for women, men, and children. Male leaders in the Catholic Church are obsessed with sex. Morality should not be viewed through the narrow prism of sexual conduct. Ethical and moral behavior is about treating everyone with respect. If there is any issue that is none of the Church’s business, it is the private sexual acts of consenting adults. Church leaders claim to be humble, but their treatment of women and people who don’t share their antiquated beliefs is the height of arrogance.

7. Don’t expect those outside the Catholic faith to behave like those in the faith. Stay out of politics and don’t prevent others from following the dictates of their conscience.

All valid except for the first, really.


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I disagree with #4 to an extent. If you're imaging having sex with someone  while you fap that would be considered lust.


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I disagree with the second.
The point of celibacy is to show the person has self control. Nobody ever said it was wrong for a priest or nun to procreate, however it is their belief that they weren't put on the planet to have a family but rather spread the word of their god.


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I only really agree with six and seven.


 
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The point of celibacy is to show the person has self control.
Yeah, look how fuc­king fantastically that turned out.


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
that would be considered lust.
>implying lust is bad


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The point of celibacy is to show the person has self control.
Yeah, look how fuc­king fantastically that turned out.
The ones that have stayed celibate are still doing fine.


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does this stuff even work?
that would be considered lust.
>implying lust is bad

well according to the bible it is.


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I really disagree with every single one of them.


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"I've been battling with the struggle of love and anger and the anger has won. It's impossible for me to go back to the way I was. I've tried changing back but it didn't work. I still had it in me and doubt it will ever go away. I have no control over it anymore. It has become part of me."
The church can hold whatever stances it wants, and I don't see how changing its stance on masturbation matters at all- I didn't even know it had one. 6 and 7 are very valid, though.


 
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I don't see how changing its stance on masturbation matters at all
Not demonising the urges of distressed Catholic teens seems like a bonus.

The third point, however, is the most important.


 
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The ones that have stayed celibate are still doing fine.
I don't think that's a fair trade off for the institutionalised rape of children.


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The ones that have stayed celibate are still doing fine.
I don't think that's a fair trade off for the institutionalised rape of children.
Who said that was okay? They're not staying celibate so obviously they don't have self control.


 
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They're not staying celibate so obviously they don't have self control.
Exactly. The systematic suppression of natural urges and human emotion will never result in anything good.


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They're not staying celibate so obviously they don't have self control.
Exactly. The systematic suppression of natural urges and human emotion will never result in anything good.
They're not even related to one another.


 
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This is the way the world ends. Not with a bang but a whimper.
They're not even related to one another.
Are you seriously trying to tell me that a Church encouraging celibacy among the clergy isn't, in any way at all, linked to the crimes we saw. I'm not even saying they're the proximate cause. I'm saying such encouragement will never provoke positive outcomes, and it certainly contributed to the issue.


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They're not even related to one another.
Are you seriously trying to tell me that a Church encouraging celibacy among the clergy isn't, in any way at all, linked to the crimes we saw. I'm not even saying they're the proximate cause. I'm saying such encouragement will never provoke positive outcomes, and it certainly contributed to the issue.
It contributed minimally. It does provoke positive outcomes as it builds self control.
You fail to realize that the entire point of being a priest or nun is to give up worldly desires and live for the faith.


 
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You fail to realize that the entire point of being a priest or nun is to give up worldly desires and live for the faith.
I don't fail to realise that at all.

I just think the whole idea is fuc­king abhorrent.


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You fail to realize that the entire point of being a priest or nun is to give up worldly desires and live for the faith.
I don't fail to realise that at all.

I just think the whole idea is fuc­king abhorrent.
Good for you, then.
They're doing what they believe is right. That's all I can ask out of people.
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They're doing what they believe is right.
So is ISIS.


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They're doing what they believe is right.
So is ISIS.
Yes? I don't believe what they're doing is right.


 
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They're doing what they believe is right.
So is ISIS.
Yes? I don't believe what they're doing is right.
So you have some room for condemnation?


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They're doing what they believe is right.
So is ISIS.
Yes? I don't believe what they're doing is right.
So you have some room for condemnation?
When I feel like someone is being treated unjustly, sure.


 
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When I feel like someone is being treated unjustly, sure.
So if the Catholic Church were doing something, demonstrably, unjust and harmful, you'd condemn them?


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When I feel like someone is being treated unjustly, sure.
So if the Catholic Church were doing something, demonstrably, unjust and harmful, you'd condemn them?
On a mass scale, sure.


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To say, 'nothing is true', is to realize that the foundations of society are fragile, and that we must be the shepherds of our own civilization. To say, 'everything is permitted', is to understand that we are the architects of our actions, and that we must live with their consequences, whether glorious or tragic.
Preface: I'm not Catholic, I've never been, and the only thing I would have to judge by is my incredibly biased dad who spends most of his time watching Fox news, so I'm not going to go by him, and so I may well be talking out of my ass if it seems like I'm assuming something in here.

For the 2nd, like it's been said, that's about self-control. While there are people that are just as qualified that aren't celibate, it's something that works as a test; in a way it's like "if you can do this, then you're probably fine". In my mind, they should make some Male equivalent to Nuns, make Priests something either a man or women can be, and then move on with life. However, it's a bunch of old Italian men running the show, so only God knows how likely that is of happening.

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Permit abortion under some circumstances and encourage contraception.
The second is a no-brainer, and the Pope would be likely to take side in that, I feel, if pressured to make comment on it. The first is going to be a tough one. Yes, there's the scientific, "it's just a cluster of cells with no consciousness" argument, but that doesn't get rid of emotions and the feeling that it still has the potential to be born and deserves that right. And while that potential may undoubtedly make some other people's lives a living hell, even the most painful and difficult of lives are viewed as sacred and necessary for the world to move forward.

4.) It's often associated with lust, not always, but most times, which is why it is viewed as a sin. Personally, I don't care much for it, but I do think it isn't something that should be made a habit of.

For the 5th, I don't think it's because of making children. As I recall, it's about making a commitment between, you, someone you love, and God.

6.) I don't know that they do that, but if they do then they should likely have some conversations/training about discussing it with other members of the church that are more experienced. Again, all assuming that they do give out advice.

7.) They more or less have for quite a while, but part of their goal is to spread their beliefs to all those willing, and not going out of their way to spread their word doesn't get much attention.