I have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?
Nobody actually means this shit they say.
Quote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMNobody actually means this shit they say.But can you at least see how we might come across as assholes to newcomers? They'd have no idea calling someone a nigger, jew, faggot, etc. was par for the course and "all in good fun."
Why do we need to grow and do something? What's wrong with doing the digital version of hanging on the block with your buddies?
Quote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.
Quote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.
Quote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:10:50 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.So you want a boring hugbox?lol go fuck yourself, mate.The Flood was founded on stupidity and assholery. Asking for that to stop is just flat out stupid.
Quote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:15:13 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:10:50 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.So you want a boring hugbox?lol go fuck yourself, mate.The Flood was founded on stupidity and assholery. Asking for that to stop is just flat out stupid.Hugbox? No.More civil conversation? YesYou give people license to insult each other at a particular level, eventually somebody gets mad and leaves. And eventually more and more leave, then the site dies.
Quote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:21:26 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:15:13 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:10:50 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.So you want a boring hugbox?lol go fuck yourself, mate.The Flood was founded on stupidity and assholery. Asking for that to stop is just flat out stupid.Hugbox? No.More civil conversation? YesYou give people license to insult each other at a particular level, eventually somebody gets mad and leaves. And eventually more and more leave, then the site dies.You'd actually have a point, but there's one critical flaw; Everyone here, apart from Brute apparently, knows that everything said is in jest and not to be taken seriously.
Quote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:26:21 PMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:21:26 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:15:13 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:10:50 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.So you want a boring hugbox?lol go fuck yourself, mate.The Flood was founded on stupidity and assholery. Asking for that to stop is just flat out stupid.Hugbox? No.More civil conversation? YesYou give people license to insult each other at a particular level, eventually somebody gets mad and leaves. And eventually more and more leave, then the site dies.You'd actually have a point, but there's one critical flaw; Everyone here, apart from Brute apparently, knows that everything said is in jest and not to be taken seriously.Remember what Numb Digger had to say when he left?Apparently even people who participate in said "assholery" think people here are screwed up.
Quote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:26:21 PMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:21:26 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:15:13 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:10:50 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.So you want a boring hugbox?lol go fuck yourself, mate.The Flood was founded on stupidity and assholery. Asking for that to stop is just flat out stupid.Hugbox? No.More civil conversation? YesYou give people license to insult each other at a particular level, eventually somebody gets mad and leaves. And eventually more and more leave, then the site dies.You'd actually have a point, but there's one critical flaw; Everyone here, apart from Brute apparently, knows that everything said is in jest and not to be taken seriously.I'm not saying that. So please stop with the assumptions. This is about people looking at us and how we come across.
Quote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:29:25 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:26:21 PMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:21:26 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:15:13 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:10:50 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.So you want a boring hugbox?lol go fuck yourself, mate.The Flood was founded on stupidity and assholery. Asking for that to stop is just flat out stupid.Hugbox? No.More civil conversation? YesYou give people license to insult each other at a particular level, eventually somebody gets mad and leaves. And eventually more and more leave, then the site dies.You'd actually have a point, but there's one critical flaw; Everyone here, apart from Brute apparently, knows that everything said is in jest and not to be taken seriously.I'm not saying that. So please stop with the assumptions. This is about people looking at us and how we come across.What people view us as isn't really a cause for concern.
Quote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:31:08 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:29:25 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:26:21 PMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:21:26 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:15:13 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:10:50 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.So you want a boring hugbox?lol go fuck yourself, mate.The Flood was founded on stupidity and assholery. Asking for that to stop is just flat out stupid.Hugbox? No.More civil conversation? YesYou give people license to insult each other at a particular level, eventually somebody gets mad and leaves. And eventually more and more leave, then the site dies.You'd actually have a point, but there's one critical flaw; Everyone here, apart from Brute apparently, knows that everything said is in jest and not to be taken seriously.I'm not saying that. So please stop with the assumptions. This is about people looking at us and how we come across.What people view us as isn't really a cause for concern.Except it is.People's perception of us determines whether they will join, or continue to lurk.Lurkers don't keep a site afloat, members do. And if we don't get new members then this site will sink when most of us eventually get bored or too busy and leave.
Quote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:33:31 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:31:08 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:29:25 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:26:21 PMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:21:26 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:15:13 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:10:50 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.So you want a boring hugbox?lol go fuck yourself, mate.The Flood was founded on stupidity and assholery. Asking for that to stop is just flat out stupid.Hugbox? No.More civil conversation? YesYou give people license to insult each other at a particular level, eventually somebody gets mad and leaves. And eventually more and more leave, then the site dies.You'd actually have a point, but there's one critical flaw; Everyone here, apart from Brute apparently, knows that everything said is in jest and not to be taken seriously.I'm not saying that. So please stop with the assumptions. This is about people looking at us and how we come across.What people view us as isn't really a cause for concern.Except it is.People's perception of us determines whether they will join, or continue to lurk.Lurkers don't keep a site afloat, members do. And if we don't get new members then this site will sink when most of us eventually get bored or too busy and leave.Sure. Tell that to 4Chan and Reddit.
Quote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:34:34 PMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:33:31 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:31:08 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:29:25 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:26:21 PMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:21:26 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:15:13 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:10:50 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.So you want a boring hugbox?lol go fuck yourself, mate.The Flood was founded on stupidity and assholery. Asking for that to stop is just flat out stupid.Hugbox? No.More civil conversation? YesYou give people license to insult each other at a particular level, eventually somebody gets mad and leaves. And eventually more and more leave, then the site dies.You'd actually have a point, but there's one critical flaw; Everyone here, apart from Brute apparently, knows that everything said is in jest and not to be taken seriously.I'm not saying that. So please stop with the assumptions. This is about people looking at us and how we come across.What people view us as isn't really a cause for concern.Except it is.People's perception of us determines whether they will join, or continue to lurk.Lurkers don't keep a site afloat, members do. And if we don't get new members then this site will sink when most of us eventually get bored or too busy and leave.Sure. Tell that to 4Chan and Reddit.We aren't 4Chan or Reddit, and most people here don't want the site to become a parody of those.
Quote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:35:40 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:34:34 PMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:33:31 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:31:08 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:29:25 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:26:21 PMQuote from: Val 'Ketam on March 03, 2015, 07:21:26 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 07:15:13 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 07:10:50 PMQuote from: BritishLemön on March 03, 2015, 05:44:18 PMQuote from: AngryBrute on March 03, 2015, 04:18:26 PMI have invited lots of people to this place over the past few months. Their main hesitation is how a lot of people here are just flat out ass holes. It really is a serious issue that can prevent this place to grow. I mean, yeah its a place to get together and talk about stuff with your buddies. But what kind of buddies? Is this just a gathering for jerks and terrible people? Or is it supposed to be something more?You actually think we're terrible people? lolI can guarantee nobody on here is actually a bad person. And the people being assholes is just something we do; Nobody actually means this shit they say.This is why taking the Internet seriously is a bad thing.Well, then I could ask many of you to cut out the stupidity and general ass hole business, but that WOULD be asking some of you to literally stop breathing.I did not say that everybody here is bad, but there is an undeniable influx of ass holes that are making potential new members turn away.So you want a boring hugbox?lol go fuck yourself, mate.The Flood was founded on stupidity and assholery. Asking for that to stop is just flat out stupid.Hugbox? No.More civil conversation? YesYou give people license to insult each other at a particular level, eventually somebody gets mad and leaves. And eventually more and more leave, then the site dies.You'd actually have a point, but there's one critical flaw; Everyone here, apart from Brute apparently, knows that everything said is in jest and not to be taken seriously.I'm not saying that. So please stop with the assumptions. This is about people looking at us and how we come across.What people view us as isn't really a cause for concern.Except it is.People's perception of us determines whether they will join, or continue to lurk.Lurkers don't keep a site afloat, members do. And if we don't get new members then this site will sink when most of us eventually get bored or too busy and leave.Sure. Tell that to 4Chan and Reddit.We aren't 4Chan or Reddit, and most people here don't want the site to become a parody of those.And the Award for missing my point goes to...
I'd love to invite more people here but this forum is way too toxic.
it would be lame if certain people felt like they couldn't talk about off topic stuff just because of the general atmosphere.
Quote from: Nagato on March 04, 2015, 02:38:42 AMQuote from: Nυƙʌ 'Kʌʅ Vʌɾɢυɲ on March 04, 2015, 02:17:40 AM it would be lame if certain people felt like they couldn't talk about off topic stuff just because of the general atmosphere.COUGHanimeCOUGHshut up weebin all seriousness though you guys pretty much talk about anime all the time already
Quote from: Nυƙʌ 'Kʌʅ Vʌɾɢυɲ on March 04, 2015, 02:17:40 AM it would be lame if certain people felt like they couldn't talk about off topic stuff just because of the general atmosphere.COUGHanimeCOUGH
I'm well aware that I'm not free of sin here. But hostility does breed more hostility. In my time on this forum I've surprised myself a few times with how much of an ass I can be, but frankly in my shoes as well as others, we were somewhat forced to adapt this was for social survival. And it kind of makes me sick.Before I was "uptight" for believing that certain kinds of behaviors weren't okay, and now that I've accepted it as part of the normal forum culture and had to retaliate against it a la anarchy and a certain cannabis lover outing me across here and bnet, I had to grow a significantly thicker skin and learn how to throw back punches so that people wouldn't continue to make a laughing stock out of me. It's fucking draining and most people would've had a public meltdown and rage quit instead.I've become an asshole so that I keep up with the social hierarchy, due to the fact that I'm a pretty active member. And it's not just me, I've seen other people change too. I've seen friendships destroyed. The culture here is toxic and if it doesn't change I do see myself leaving in the next few months. If it wasn't for that though, I really would love it here. But it's becoming more and more of a drag recently and I don't want anymore.
Quote from: Sandtrap on March 04, 2015, 09:58:11 AMRather than be hostile, just take it as a joke Nuka. Because that's what it all is. One big joke.Sticks and stones, right? Oh yeah, people being malicious towards me for my situation and my identity is so haha funny.No. It's not just a joke. It's anything but that.Reaching out for help from people here was both a huge mistake and really great at the same time. I connected with a lot of great people like yourself, but it also opened me up to a whole new world of shit.Now before someone asks "Why should you care? Why not just suck it up?"Because it's personal. It's my own personal life and obviously I had initially kept it secret for good reason. I don't like being treated any differently than any other member, but in the process of getting thrown into the spotlight and stooping to something like accepting donations was both degrading to my "I can do things myself" lifestyle and compromising to my entire online image.I originally joined this forum and became an active member because I needed the escapism from real life, and it ended up getting dragged into here anyway. I got close to people, opened up to them, they introduced me to other people, they behind my back start telling other people, those people start having issues with each other, and next thing I know I'm sucked into the middle of drama with these people. I talk to them, I try to help. I do good for a while and I'm appreciated. And it works, at least until one of them decides they don't want to listen to what's probably best and they just want to claw each other's faces off. Since I'm in the middle of it they hold it against me.Rumors spread, shit gets out of hand. Anarchy comes around, and people coordinates attacks against each other. People show their true colors. Insults back and forth, stupid drama and grudges only getting worse and worse, and then you've got idiots like McChubs and Nugtella going around and fucking doxxing people.Hilarious stuff, right?
Rather than be hostile, just take it as a joke Nuka. Because that's what it all is. One big joke.
Quote from: Sandtrap on March 04, 2015, 10:35:51 AMBut like I said. What they fuck are they really going to do? Say mean shit? Start trouble? Just laugh it Nuka. Because they're jokes. Walking jokes that are really, just sad people hiding behind their own masks and insecurities that don't have the balls to even acknowledge it or change it.When I was first outed and actually a few days before that, I was continuously being pressured by some of the mods to just come out so that it would make moderation easier for them. You know, so that they wouldn't have to do damage control every time someone tried to spill the beans.You know why I didn't? I didn't know if I could handle it. I was afraid it would make me crack and make me break back down into some sort of suicidal state because of everything else I'm fighting off right now. I had a full month until the next anarchy, at least- so at least I had time to recover. But being outed and learning to combat the people who give me shit for being me is exactly the reason I've turned into a jackass. And that's the issue.QuoteAt least you can admit when you're being an ass.At least I can admit when I'm being a whiny bitch and only making myself more depressed and therefore fucking up what's left of my physical state.I've always done my best to be aware of my own faults, even if I don't recognized them until later.I guess you could say that self betterment is a constant goal, but it feels like everything's been going backward the past few months.
But like I said. What they fuck are they really going to do? Say mean shit? Start trouble? Just laugh it Nuka. Because they're jokes. Walking jokes that are really, just sad people hiding behind their own masks and insecurities that don't have the balls to even acknowledge it or change it.
At least you can admit when you're being an ass.At least I can admit when I'm being a whiny bitch and only making myself more depressed and therefore fucking up what's left of my physical state.
Quote from: Sandtrap on March 04, 2015, 10:57:49 AMWhat happens if people get all bitchy and usual people routine? Take a look at it and laugh. Because it is funny. It's an old routine that they're stuck on like a broken record and the irony is, while they give you so much shit about yourself, they're the ones living in the past.Trust me, been doing that for months now. There's a good deal of people here that really don't know how to let things go.The problem though, is that these problematic individuals always do everything they can to blow things way out of proportion every single time.
What happens if people get all bitchy and usual people routine? Take a look at it and laugh. Because it is funny. It's an old routine that they're stuck on like a broken record and the irony is, while they give you so much shit about yourself, they're the ones living in the past.