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8521
« on: February 14, 2015, 09:44:08 PM »
Where am I you cat raping whore
8522
« on: February 14, 2015, 09:40:14 PM »
Second of all, NIN do not deserve it. wrong, objectivelyThird, Stevie Ray Vaughn sucks cock. correct, but even Jim could figure that out
oh waitFourth, Lou Reed deserved it way more. whatever
Please explain how NIN deserves to be in the rock and roll hall of fame?
8523
« on: February 14, 2015, 09:39:44 PM »
Wait, what genre?
'Cause like, Head like a Hole and Closer (aka the only NiN songs to ever get radio airtime) suck dick. industrial
specifically industrial rock
i wouldn't say either of those two songs suck dick, but they certainly were not the only songs that people heard
pretty hate machine is certified triple platinum, and the downward spiral went quadruple platinum
But Verb
industrial rock is garbage
No it isn't
8524
« on: February 14, 2015, 09:39:06 PM »
Okay first of all, the Rock and Roll hall of fame is and always will be and always has been a complete joke. Nobody takes it seriously because it's retarded. Second of all, NIN do not deserve it. Third, Stevie Ray Vaughn sucks cock. Fourth, Lou Reed deserved it way more.
Jim, you are right for once!
I try
8525
« on: February 14, 2015, 09:35:14 PM »
Okay first of all, the Rock and Roll hall of fame is and always will be and always has been a complete joke. Nobody takes it seriously because it's retarded. Second of all, NIN do not deserve it. Third, Stevie Ray Vaughn sucks cock. Fourth, Lou Reed deserved it way more.
8526
« on: February 14, 2015, 09:04:46 PM »
MASTERS OF GREED
FROM WHICH YOU FEED
NO ESCAPE
FROM THIS WORLD OF HATE
8527
« on: February 14, 2015, 09:02:01 PM »
In all honesty, sex is pretty overrated.
Gotta disagree there.
Eh I mean I like sex but I think people make a bigger deal out of it than it warrants.
People always say this but I never see anyone above the age of 16 making a huge deal about sex.
eh.
I mean look around at all the ads and shit
I guess but I'm just saying I've personally never seen anyone above 16 treat sex like a big deal outside of /r9k/
8528
« on: February 14, 2015, 09:01:18 PM »
In all honesty, sex is pretty overrated.
Gotta disagree there.
Eh I mean I like sex but I think people make a bigger deal out of it than it warrants.
People always say this but I never see anyone above the age of 16 making a huge deal about sex.
Uh, look at this fucking website, and other forums. It is all stupid fucking sex jokes everywhere.
>jokes >serious
8529
« on: February 14, 2015, 08:55:38 PM »
In all honesty, sex is pretty overrated.
Gotta disagree there.
Eh I mean I like sex but I think people make a bigger deal out of it than it warrants.
People always say this but I never see anyone above the age of 16 making a huge deal about sex.
8530
« on: February 14, 2015, 08:38:26 PM »
8531
« on: February 14, 2015, 08:13:10 PM »
"Francis, what the HELL is wrong with you?"
 Yes no maybe can you repeat the question?
8532
« on: February 14, 2015, 08:11:40 PM »
Jim knows a lot about sex, for a virgin.
I learned it all from your mom
8533
« on: February 14, 2015, 08:06:37 PM »
Hello, you've reached the Navy's automated phone service.
8534
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:45:28 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
None of these things are things that cannot be fixed after marriage. It all comes down to initiative that a couple has to work out their sexual relationship.
I would like you to ask an asexual if they think they can change.
People do not change like that. It doesn't happen. To think it does is stupid and naive.
I said fix, not change. That suggests other ways to solve the problem. You can work your way around sexual incompatibility. It is a stumbling block, but not something that cannot be solved. Like I said, It all depends on the initiative of the couple.
Please, enlighten me with your vast wisdom
You don't have to come off as an arrogant prick. You're making this discussion unpleasant. If you would please enlighten me more on why you disagree without insults or asshatery, this would be a much more educational experience for both sides.
I said you cannot change sexual compatibility. You said you can "fix" it and you did not say how. I want you to tell me how you can "fix" sexual incompatibility.
You can work around it. It is not such a far fetched concept. I keep saying it all comes down to the communication and initiative of the couple but it really doesn't seem like you're reading what I'm saying. Yes, it's a big problem with a lot of relationships, but it can be fixed through communication between partners and so on and so forth. This falls into what I've been saying about people getting to know their spouses and themselves after their marriage rather than before.
In some cases yes, sexual frustrations can be worked out through communication. Often, actually. But what I am talking about is INCOMPATIBILITY. If your wife refuses to go down on you even though you do it for her when she asks, that is uncool and should be talked about. Sometimes it can be solved. I am not denying that, but when someone simply does not enjoy sex as much as you do, you are incompatible and it cannot be fixed or worked around because they will always see it as a chore and not enjoyable.
What I have been referring to this whole time is sexual incompatibility. What is your point?
Sexual incompatibility is a fixed thing. It cannot be changed, worked around or ignored.
End of story.
That's your opinion. I think it's an incorrect opinion as many people have worked around, and may even ignored sexual incompatibility. If you don't believe me, you can just look it up. Sexual incompatibility is a very common and major issue in marriage, but I think it is not as you describe. I don't know if you are speaking from personal experience or just assumptions, but either way, what I have read up on says otherwise. I'm not even sure you entirely understand what sexual incompatibility is at this point, but okay. You've shown your stance on the subject.
Sexual incompatibility is exactly what I described and I'm correct. You are wrong. This isn't just my opinion.
Please, describe it to me again, and if you are correct in what it is, then why would you say there is no way to get around it when so many people have?
Spoiler Not going to be able to reply for a while. Possibly not even until tomorrow.
Nobody has ever gotten around it because it's something you are born with and something that will ALWAYS cause problems. Even if the couple stays together it's because they're idiots who do not have a healthy relationship that anyone should ever want. Tell me, do you think an asexual could be in a healthy marriage with a nymphomaniac? If you say yes you're a fool.
8535
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:40:52 PM »
8536
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:36:19 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
None of these things are things that cannot be fixed after marriage. It all comes down to initiative that a couple has to work out their sexual relationship.
I would like you to ask an asexual if they think they can change.
People do not change like that. It doesn't happen. To think it does is stupid and naive.
I said fix, not change. That suggests other ways to solve the problem. You can work your way around sexual incompatibility. It is a stumbling block, but not something that cannot be solved. Like I said, It all depends on the initiative of the couple.
Please, enlighten me with your vast wisdom
You don't have to come off as an arrogant prick. You're making this discussion unpleasant. If you would please enlighten me more on why you disagree without insults or asshatery, this would be a much more educational experience for both sides.
I said you cannot change sexual compatibility. You said you can "fix" it and you did not say how. I want you to tell me how you can "fix" sexual incompatibility.
You can work around it. It is not such a far fetched concept. I keep saying it all comes down to the communication and initiative of the couple but it really doesn't seem like you're reading what I'm saying. Yes, it's a big problem with a lot of relationships, but it can be fixed through communication between partners and so on and so forth. This falls into what I've been saying about people getting to know their spouses and themselves after their marriage rather than before.
In some cases yes, sexual frustrations can be worked out through communication. Often, actually. But what I am talking about is INCOMPATIBILITY. If your wife refuses to go down on you even though you do it for her when she asks, that is uncool and should be talked about. Sometimes it can be solved. I am not denying that, but when someone simply does not enjoy sex as much as you do, you are incompatible and it cannot be fixed or worked around because they will always see it as a chore and not enjoyable.
What I have been referring to this whole time is sexual incompatibility. What is your point?
Sexual incompatibility is a fixed thing. It cannot be changed, worked around or ignored.
End of story.
That's your opinion. I think it's an incorrect opinion as many people have worked around, and may even ignored sexual incompatibility. If you don't believe me, you can just look it up. Sexual incompatibility is a very common and major issue in marriage, but I think it is not as you describe. I don't know if you are speaking from personal experience or just assumptions, but either way, what I have read up on says otherwise. I'm not even sure you entirely understand what sexual incompatibility is at this point, but okay. You've shown your stance on the subject.
Sexual incompatibility is exactly what I described and I'm correct. You are wrong. This isn't just my opinion.
8537
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:31:58 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
If you also get no enjoyment from sex with your partner and do it as a "chore" you will grow resentment towards the other person or vice versa.
Most of what you mentioned can easily be worked out after marriage.
">sexual attraction towards each other"
Well that shouldn't be an issue, sexual attraction is what draws people towards one another in the first place. This would only be an issue in an arranged marriage.
">willingness to satisfy each other sexually"
Again, see above. If people are attracted to one another, which they typically are given that they're married, they're probably willing to do this.
1. No it can't
2. And yet you get plenty of people who like to pretend sexual attraction doesn't matter at all.
3. That is just not true and you're an idiot.
1. "Hey, I'm not in the mood at the moment." "OK."
2. Those people are dumb, and I'm not stating that, they are.
3. I'm pretty sure two people sexually attracted to one another are willing to have sex. Also, way to provide an intelligent response on this one.
1. "I'm not in the mood" not the same as "I do no enjoy sex as much as you do"
2. Of course they are.
3. Sure, but some people do not enjoy sex as much as others and will often think of it as a chore.
OK, so they may not enjoy sex to the same extent. This doesn't necessarily mean one completely hates it and the other enjoys it, and if they married each other for multiple reasons, beyond simple sexual attraction (and don't twist my words, I think it's important but it shouldn't be the sole factor in determining whether to marry someone), then they're probably willing to satisfy each other even if one may not necessarily enjoy it.
Willingness to satisfy the other person does not in itself make a healthy relationship. If you continue to think of something like sex, which is supposed to be pleasurable and a happy experience as a chore, you will over time begin to resent the action and it will create tension and unhappiness between the two of you. Your partner will notice it because you don't share his/her enthusiasm about it. Even if you "act" and pretend to enjoy it then YOU will instead be not only lying to your partner, but you will, as I said, be creating tension by treating sex like a chore. Selflessness is important but you also must think about yourself to have healthy relationships with anyone. If you feel like you have to pretend to be someone you're not, you're only creating problems in the future.
8538
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:22:25 PM »
This thread is awesome.
Yes. Yes it is. The only thing that kind of spoils it is people becoming more and more hostile as the discussion goes on. The insults and condescending attitudes only lessen my respect for other people.
That's because you're wrong.
Some people just aren't sexually compatible. Yeah, you can work on parts of it, but that work is going to change one or both of you. Sometimes compromise isn't possible.
That's why you work these things out before marriage.
Where are you getting this information? Experience or just your idea of how it would play out? I would like to know.
Experience.
There are women I have dated where we just didn't click sexually. A balance of emotional and sexual elements is important to having a healthy, well-rounded relationship. Too much of one and not enough of the other doesn't work.
I know some people aren't sexually compatible, but I've already said how I think people can get over than issue. Other than that, everything else you said is opinion based off of past experience and I can say nothing to change that. I don't know what happened to you, and that's where that line ends. The thing is, I believe there is always such a thing as compromise. There is always something people can do. Many times it may not be conventional at all and sometimes even mad freaky, but I believe there is always a solution.
And as I said, there's some things you just can't compromise on. If Partner A has a high libido and wants to have sex every day, and Partner B only wants to have sex every month or so, a compromise will make both uncomfortable and unhappy, which is a lose-lose.
>tfw i liked a Max post
8539
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:21:54 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
None of these things are things that cannot be fixed after marriage. It all comes down to initiative that a couple has to work out their sexual relationship.
I would like you to ask an asexual if they think they can change.
People do not change like that. It doesn't happen. To think it does is stupid and naive.
I said fix, not change. That suggests other ways to solve the problem. You can work your way around sexual incompatibility. It is a stumbling block, but not something that cannot be solved. Like I said, It all depends on the initiative of the couple.
Please, enlighten me with your vast wisdom
You don't have to come off as an arrogant prick. You're making this discussion unpleasant. If you would please enlighten me more on why you disagree without insults or asshatery, this would be a much more educational experience for both sides.
I said you cannot change sexual compatibility. You said you can "fix" it and you did not say how. I want you to tell me how you can "fix" sexual incompatibility.
You can work around it. It is not such a far fetched concept. I keep saying it all comes down to the communication and initiative of the couple but it really doesn't seem like you're reading what I'm saying. Yes, it's a big problem with a lot of relationships, but it can be fixed through communication between partners and so on and so forth. This falls into what I've been saying about people getting to know their spouses and themselves after their marriage rather than before.
In some cases yes, sexual frustrations can be worked out through communication. Often, actually. But what I am talking about is INCOMPATIBILITY. If your wife refuses to go down on you even though you do it for her when she asks, that is uncool and should be talked about. Sometimes it can be solved. I am not denying that, but when someone simply does not enjoy sex as much as you do, you are incompatible and it cannot be fixed or worked around because they will always see it as a chore and not enjoyable.
What I have been referring to this whole time is sexual incompatibility. What is your point?
Sexual incompatibility is a fixed thing. It cannot be changed, worked around or ignored. End of story.
8540
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:17:27 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
None of these things are things that cannot be fixed after marriage. It all comes down to initiative that a couple has to work out their sexual relationship.
I would like you to ask an asexual if they think they can change.
People do not change like that. It doesn't happen. To think it does is stupid and naive.
I said fix, not change. That suggests other ways to solve the problem. You can work your way around sexual incompatibility. It is a stumbling block, but not something that cannot be solved. Like I said, It all depends on the initiative of the couple.
Please, enlighten me with your vast wisdom
You don't have to come off as an arrogant prick. You're making this discussion unpleasant. If you would please enlighten me more on why you disagree without insults or asshatery, this would be a much more educational experience for both sides.
I said you cannot change sexual compatibility. You said you can "fix" it and you did not say how. I want you to tell me how you can "fix" sexual incompatibility.
You can work around it. It is not such a far fetched concept. I keep saying it all comes down to the communication and initiative of the couple but it really doesn't seem like you're reading what I'm saying. Yes, it's a big problem with a lot of relationships, but it can be fixed through communication between partners and so on and so forth. This falls into what I've been saying about people getting to know their spouses and themselves after their marriage rather than before.
In some cases yes, sexual frustrations can be worked out through communication. Often, actually. But what I am talking about is INCOMPATIBILITY. If your wife refuses to go down on you even though you do it for her when she asks, that is uncool and should be talked about. Sometimes it can be solved. I am not denying that, but when someone simply does not enjoy sex as much as you do, you are incompatible and it cannot be fixed or worked around because they will always see it as a chore and not enjoyable.
8541
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:14:50 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
If you also get no enjoyment from sex with your partner and do it as a "chore" you will grow resentment towards the other person or vice versa.
Most of what you mentioned can easily be worked out after marriage.
">sexual attraction towards each other"
Well that shouldn't be an issue, sexual attraction is what draws people towards one another in the first place. This would only be an issue in an arranged marriage.
">willingness to satisfy each other sexually"
Again, see above. If people are attracted to one another, which they typically are given that they're married, they're probably willing to do this.
1. No it can't
2. And yet you get plenty of people who like to pretend sexual attraction doesn't matter at all.
3. That is just not true and you're an idiot.
1. "Hey, I'm not in the mood at the moment." "OK."
2. Those people are dumb, and I'm not stating that, they are.
3. I'm pretty sure two people sexually attracted to one another are willing to have sex. Also, way to provide an intelligent response on this one.
1. "I'm not in the mood" not the same as "I do no enjoy sex as much as you do" 2. Of course they are. 3. Sure, but some people do not enjoy sex as much as others and will often think of it as a chore.
8542
« on: February 14, 2015, 07:03:43 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
None of these things are things that cannot be fixed after marriage. It all comes down to initiative that a couple has to work out their sexual relationship.
I would like you to ask an asexual if they think they can change.
People do not change like that. It doesn't happen. To think it does is stupid and naive.
I said fix, not change. That suggests other ways to solve the problem. You can work your way around sexual incompatibility. It is a stumbling block, but not something that cannot be solved. Like I said, It all depends on the initiative of the couple.
Please, enlighten me with your vast wisdom
You don't have to come off as an arrogant prick. You're making this discussion unpleasant. If you would please enlighten me more on why you disagree without insults or asshatery, this would be a much more educational experience for both sides.
I said you cannot change sexual compatibility. You said you can "fix" it and you did not say how. I want you to tell me how you can "fix" sexual incompatibility.
8543
« on: February 14, 2015, 06:57:15 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
None of these things are things that cannot be fixed after marriage. It all comes down to initiative that a couple has to work out their sexual relationship.
I would like you to ask an asexual if they think they can change.
People do not change like that. It doesn't happen. To think it does is stupid and naive.
I said fix, not change. That suggests other ways to solve the problem. You can work your way around sexual incompatibility. It is a stumbling block, but not something that cannot be solved. Like I said, It all depends on the initiative of the couple.
Please, enlighten me with your vast wisdom
8544
« on: February 14, 2015, 06:52:55 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
If you also get no enjoyment from sex with your partner and do it as a "chore" you will grow resentment towards the other person or vice versa.
Most of what you mentioned can easily be worked out after marriage.
">sexual attraction towards each other"
Well that shouldn't be an issue, sexual attraction is what draws people towards one another in the first place. This would only be an issue in an arranged marriage.
">willingness to satisfy each other sexually"
Again, see above. If people are attracted to one another, which they typically are given that they're married, they're probably willing to do this.
1. No it can't 2. And yet you get plenty of people who like to pretend sexual attraction doesn't matter at all. 3. That is just not true and you're an idiot.
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« on: February 14, 2015, 06:51:01 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems.
>compatible libidos
>willingness to satisfy each other sexually
>sexual attraction towards each other
>accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc.
None of these things are things that cannot be fixed after marriage. It all comes down to initiative that a couple has to work out their sexual relationship.
I would like you to ask an asexual if they think they can change. People do not change like that. It doesn't happen. To think it does is stupid and naive.
8546
« on: February 14, 2015, 06:41:01 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Not really.
Not being sexually satisfied in a marriage can lead to unhappiness in the marriage, and is one of the reasons why people cheat on their spouse.
A good sexual relationship is a big factor to a healthy marriage. Divorcing someone because you're unhappy isn't ridiculous at all.
If you struggle that much to keep your genitals under control, then you've got bigger problems than marriage.
You're an idiot
8547
« on: February 14, 2015, 06:40:03 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important
Define "sexual compatibility".
>compatible libidos >willingness to satisfy each other sexually >sexual attraction towards each other >accepting of fetishes, kinks, boundaries, etc. These are things you have to find out before marriage. Sex is an important part of a relationship. That doesn't mean you have to have sex all the time. Some people don't like sex as much as others, that's fine, but if you have a low libido or NO libido and you're with someone who loves sex and wants it frequently, you WILL have problems. If you also get no enjoyment from sex with your partner and do it as a "chore" you will grow resentment towards the other person or vice versa.
8548
« on: February 14, 2015, 06:34:30 PM »
Also, why do people think that waiting until marriage is ridiculous? Don't you want to be able to say that you were the only one who has fucked your spouse and that no else has ever touched them, and vice versa? Isn't that something special? Something to be proud of? And don't give me all that, "Well it's boring. I need some variety." bullshit. If your sex life with your spouse is boring well than that's your fault. Your sex life would be boring because you'd suck due to no experience.
A lot of marriages end because they're either sexually incompatible or just flat out suck dick in bed, y'know.
So yes, reserving yourself until you're married is ridiculous.
Marrying or divorcing someone based on sexual performance is ridiculous.
Sexual compatibility is extremely important numbnuts
8549
« on: February 14, 2015, 06:11:51 PM »
None.
8550
« on: February 14, 2015, 06:11:28 PM »
Well that's not true because heaven implies that you are constantly happy and content.
But if I die before my wife I have to wait for her to die to be with her soul once again.
That sounds pretty bad if I die way early.
But time in Heaven will go by quickly because it is eternal probably.
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