Isn't it literally just sleeping beauty?

Nah man not even close

Shrek is like this disgusting ogre who can only accept himself when he’s alone

Fiona wants to live up to societies standards to be beautiful SO BAD. She’s isolated in this tower for years

Shrek doesn’t ever believe someone like Fiona can love him for who he is

But through challenges/adventure/etc they fall for eachother and accept who they are. What reality has made them. And they learn to love themselves and by extension eachother

And don’t even get me started on shrek 2

I am fucked. And the thing is I didn’t even do anything wrong this time, he’s the unstable one, even more emotionally unstable than me.

Smh

what kind of shit

Very emotional, heavy paradigm shifting type of shit 

I’ve been meditating hardcore these last few months too. Almost religiously throwing myself into my spirituality and ironically it makes me feel everything 10x more intensely.

I’m SecondClasses biggest fan

I will lick a pretty girls cute clean butthole is that degenerate?

Hahahaha

The self is an illusion and our behavior is constantly altered by our environment, hormones, thoughts, hundreds of other triggers that we can’t even account for etc. You seem to be pretty aware of it and create “stories” for the changes in your behavior. For me I find that there really isn’t one set “identity” except at the very core which is where they all originate from

Quote from: Shhhhhh on March 29, 2018, 03:58:00 PM

you probably shouldn't be allowed near women

why not

I love and respect anyone far more than you lol, I take care of ppl

u can’t take care of anybody if you can’t take care of yourself. You’re just using them to fufill your needs under the guise of caring for them etc 

A legit breakup with someone you’ve invested your entire sense of self with is probably one of the most excruciatingly painful emotional trials you can ever go through. I don’t care what anyone says, a true love breakup is world shattering to the person. And as an already empathetic person, you’re going to feel the severity of it much more than most will understand.

First thing you need to know, is that it will get better. Second thing you need to know, is that nothing I say will be able to ease the pain for you right now. For how long depends up to you. Your identity, sense of self, everything was somewhat to majorly dependent on HER. That’s what happens in relationships like this. Your brain is like legit wired to her brain. You have identical experiences, the habits you’ve formed with her are so strong, those neural pathways so thick, that by breaking up you’re going  to have to basically tear them out, and that’s painful as fuck.

The best thing I did was to in a way reinvent myself. When I went through a horrible suicide provoking breakup, I felt over time that I was sorta shedding away layers of myself as time went on and the pain would come and go. And that I was adding new layers to myself, better improved layers. That surrounded my core identity/values. I completely transformed in a way, improved immensely, and am so much happier and fulfilled now.

That seems impossible to you I know, but you have to keep it in your mind that it will get better. That’s not meant to make you feel better though like I said. You’re acrually probably going to feel like absolute shit for a good while, with occasional glimpses of happiness. It’s almkst like the theme of the world you live in changed, everything’s the same but so different right?  Just pretend like you’re living in a nightmare right now. You’re gonna have to be strong and push through it. Just feel your emotions as they come, don’t try to block them out in any way!!

I recommend filling your life with brand new experiences. New people, new places, new new new. And enjoyable to you. Force yourself to flood your brain with all these new experiences. Read! Reading changes your thought patterns so well. I highly recommend getting into meditation too, it’s changed my life tbh.

Not sure the circumstances but I’m here for you man. Snap me or somethjng if you ever need to talk or just vent to a semi anon person. I have a lot of experience with this

But if you try sometimes you just might find

YOU GET WHAT YOU NEED

Rate my selfie

10 years can’t think that far ahead. I’ll give you 5

-My physical prime.
-Living in a sunny city preferably close to the beach
-Finishing my last year of school getting ready to graduate
-High enough income to splice comfortablly, while supporting tons of trips
-Extremely good at living fully in the now etc. that means keeping up with my spirituality and meditation practices
-Maybe living with a steady long term girlfriend

I would do nothing different except randomly drop little comments containing tidbits of stuff I’ve learned about users over the years. Everyone would be wondering who tf I was and how I know so much about everything

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Quote from: Eli on March 03, 2018, 03:07:25 PM

what drove you to cheat

It all came from me. I’m sure everyone’s slightly different but for me it was the high of feeling wanted and desired by another woman, my sex drive, my insecurities. I almost felt like I was coming from a place of lacking, that I HAD to nab this opportunity to cheat, like there wouldn’t ever be an opportunity in the future when/if I was single. It had absolutely nothing to do with my partner at all, nothing they could do would’ve changed the decision I made.

It was a really dark time for me, it made me miserable and actually more paranoid of my partner. I confronted her about it and it was this huge ordeal we went through that is still not fully recovered.

Since then I’ve been trying to live with a lot more integrity, both with other people and myself. Life is simpler like that when (like verb said) you’re honest with yourself and others. Been working for me so far.

would you say youre still in a position where cheating would be too tempting to pass up

would you say cheating usually comes from insecurity

Good questions

1. If like to say no, but I’m not actually certain. My sex drive is insanely high right now and what I’ve been doing is completely avoiding situations that could enable cheating. I doubt I would cheat again now but there’s always situations that could make it really difficult(just being honest)

2. Sometimes but not always. For some people it may not even be from low self esteem, they might have regular self esteem/security and cheating is even more of a self esteem booster. I was also reading how some people are addicted to that “high” of initially meeting someone and getting physical with them, like a mini honeymoon stage.

How did you get to that conclusion?

That there are no mistakes?