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The Flood / Re: Let's talk about polyamory
« on: July 01, 2016, 10:29:31 AM »polyamory is 100% a-okay with me
You would be ok with someone you love being physical with other people and then coming home to you for emotional attention?
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The Flood / Re: Let's talk about polyamory« on: July 01, 2016, 10:29:31 AM »polyamory is 100% a-okay with me You would be ok with someone you love being physical with other people and then coming home to you for emotional attention? 7112
The Flood / Re: I have 2016 pages of likes given« on: July 01, 2016, 10:07:33 AM »
What's your opinion on genetic engineering?
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The Flood / Let's talk about polyamory« on: July 01, 2016, 09:44:30 AM »
Some girl I've been seeing for a while wants to see other people. The best I can describe our relationship is that we're lovers. There's feelings involved but we're not in a typical bf/gf relationship and the plan was always to find someone else and move on.
The ground rules I set when we started this venture were that we were exclusive until she or I found someone else, then all activities would cease. I have feelings for this girl and jealousy would be an issue if we had an open relationship. Recently she found someone she wants to be physical with and per my boundaries she let me know and we stopped being intimate. The problem that has arisen is that she still wants to be intimate with me while she's with this guy (and possibly another girl in the future). I have no intention of being in a polyamorous relationship. Maybe that makes me emotionally immature, maybe it doesn't. I'm not generally a jealous person but when someone is actively pursuing another relationship I want no part of it. She "doesn't understand" why I'm acting this way. I think it's pretty clear. In this love triangle I would be the only one who can get hurt. She barely knows this guy and I'm sure he doesn't feel the same for her that I do. If we were just having sex it would be different, but it's not just sex. There's an emotional connection. I guess what I'm asking is what you would do in this situation. Have you considered polyamory? Would you consider polyamory? Just so we're clear, I would be free to pursue other interests as well, and she has admitted to not being comfortable with me being with other women, but she still wants to try it. TL:DR my ex lover is trying to reap the benefits of being with me while pursuing someone else and I shut that shit down. Edit: I have already ended the relationship and I'm not really looking for advice, just your thoughts on polyamory in general. 7114
The Flood / Re: I have 2016 pages of likes given« on: July 01, 2016, 09:27:00 AM »
Is there any user whose posts you find yourself liking the least?
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The Flood / Re: Girlfriend or Career ?« on: July 01, 2016, 09:15:10 AM »Girlfriend, easily. Not even a question in my mind, given she meets all of my current standards. What if she doesn't meet all your standards? 7116
The Flood / Re: Treasure Hunt (Forum game)« on: July 01, 2016, 09:02:53 AM »Please select a number between 1-525 please. (Also this is a pretty sick thread idea)please proceed to one of the following options. 06 is the clear choice 7117
The Flood / Re: Greetings From Cali« on: July 01, 2016, 08:58:26 AM »Get a load of this mickUnlike kangs, Asians can be visually identified as individuals.Um, those were chinks, not gooks.Gooks like you are not Californian at allBegone from this state. You are not welcome among us. Easy Ahmad 7118
The Flood / Re: Why is it so important that our kids learn what noise an animal makes?« on: June 30, 2016, 12:44:58 PM »^this x1000I just assumed it was just to help get the child to start thinking and shit What the fuck happened to you then? 7119
The Flood / Re: What is your favourite animal« on: June 30, 2016, 12:41:59 PM »
My favorite animole is
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The Flood / Re: Why is it so important that our kids learn what noise an animal makes?« on: June 30, 2016, 12:23:09 PM »'Cept I was an Army Infantryman. My dad was army infantry and navy corpsman. He makes fun of marines all the time. Calls them bullet dodgers and says they're not very good at it. 7121
The Flood / Re: Girlfriend or Career ?« on: June 30, 2016, 12:18:26 PM »
Career. Plenty of bitches in the ocean
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The Flood / Re: Why is it so important that our kids learn what noise an animal makes?« on: June 30, 2016, 10:49:56 AM »Charlie do you ever put one second of thought into anything you say?devil dogs don't need to think Oorah! 7123
The Flood / Re: users you're a mix of« on: June 30, 2016, 10:46:51 AM »okay commsI'm a special snowflake What was comms like, daddy? 7124
The Flood / Re: users you're a mix of« on: June 30, 2016, 10:46:10 AM »I'm a special snowflake I invite you to the super secret club and you betray me? 7125
The Flood / Re: users you're a mix of« on: June 30, 2016, 10:44:13 AM »I'm a special snowflake You're basically low grade me. 7126
The Flood / Re: What is your favourite animal« on: June 30, 2016, 10:42:40 AM »
I like stripey horses.
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The Flood / Re: Greetings From Cali« on: June 30, 2016, 10:39:32 AM »Unlike kangs, Asians can be visually identified as individuals.Um, those were chinks, not gooks.Gooks like you are not Californian at allBegone from this state. You are not welcome among us. But what's the difference? They're all yellow rice eaters 7128
The Flood / Re: Treasure Hunt (Forum game)« on: June 30, 2016, 10:38:39 AM »5 please. (Also this is a pretty sick thread idea)please proceed to one of the following options. 3 please 7129
The Flood / Re: Greetings From Cali« on: June 30, 2016, 10:01:16 AM »Um, those were chinks, not gooks.Gooks like you are not Californian at allBegone from this state. You are not welcome among us. Chinks, gooks, slants, what's the difference? 7130
The Flood / Re: Lessons gaming has taught you« on: June 30, 2016, 10:00:33 AM »
Katanas can literally cut through anything.
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The Flood / Re: Lessons gaming has taught you« on: June 30, 2016, 10:00:02 AM »GTA taught me that if a car drives up slowly beside you whilst you are walking on the pavement, duck because it's a fucking drive byI learned that in real life 7132
The Flood / Re: Treasure Hunt (Forum game)« on: June 30, 2016, 09:58:10 AM »
5 please. (Also this is a pretty sick thread idea)
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The Flood / Re: Greetings From Cali« on: June 30, 2016, 09:55:23 AM »Gooks like you are not Californian at allBegone from this state. You are not welcome among us. Dude, they built the railroads. Gooks were the OG Californians. 7135
The Flood / Re: this is my first time on here in two days« on: June 30, 2016, 08:41:14 AM »>caring about roachesdude why'd you bomb that airport in Turkey? 7136
The Flood / Re: I'm thinking about inviting my friend here.« on: June 30, 2016, 08:36:12 AM »
I would invite my irl friends but I have none
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The Flood / Re: Crayfish« on: June 30, 2016, 08:33:26 AM »No joke, I seriously thought that was the Face Hugger from Alien.Those are horseshoe crabs at the bottom https://sparklegossip.wordpress.com/2014/01/02/sea-spider-hoax/ Mmmmm 7138
The Flood / Re: what kind of NSA shit is that?« on: June 30, 2016, 07:11:53 AM »Google compiles your search results and sells you products based on them. You can opt out bra.this was during a conversation irl NSA has you bugged. It's a shame the racial profiling that they're allowed to get away with. 7139
The Flood / Re: what kind of NSA shit is that?« on: June 29, 2016, 08:51:31 PM »
Google compiles your search results and sells you products based on them. You can opt out bra.
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The Flood / Re: What is everyone having for lunch« on: June 29, 2016, 06:18:41 PM »just made myself some egg drop soup for dinner I'll drop my eggs in your soup |